Caddy Posted December 23, 2003 Share Posted December 23, 2003 So how long did you, or do you wait before you take your relationships to the sexual level? I certainly don't just jump into every guy's bed that I meet. But I have been in a few relationships where we made the move like after a few dates. And then I have made a couple guys wait almost 6 months. Link to post Share on other sites
dyermaker Posted December 23, 2003 Share Posted December 23, 2003 *is still waiting* Link to post Share on other sites
lostforwords Posted December 23, 2003 Share Posted December 23, 2003 i was actually in a relationship with someone where he waited almost a year..... it helped tho that it was a long distance relationship..... and a little PS helped! lol Link to post Share on other sites
Author Caddy Posted December 23, 2003 Author Share Posted December 23, 2003 You phone sex slut! LOL How long distance was it? And did he go the distance? ;) Link to post Share on other sites
lostforwords Posted December 23, 2003 Share Posted December 23, 2003 Ill never tell Link to post Share on other sites
Author Caddy Posted December 23, 2003 Author Share Posted December 23, 2003 LMAO! As I am sure he will never know everything you faked Ok, only Lost and I know what this is about I'm not toally crazy! Link to post Share on other sites
lostforwords Posted December 23, 2003 Share Posted December 23, 2003 LMAO! As I am sure he will never know everything you faked HUH???????? wtf does this mean????? (rofl) Link to post Share on other sites
bark Posted December 23, 2003 Share Posted December 23, 2003 I almost never waited. The sex usually happened on the first date. Maybe I just selected easy women. I don't know of any man who has waited of his own volition. Such sensitive guys may be out there, but I don't know of any. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Caddy Posted December 23, 2003 Author Share Posted December 23, 2003 DON'T GO THERE! LMAO You wicked witch! Yes everyone, she edited her post!!!! There I said it!!! LOL If only you knew what it said ;) Link to post Share on other sites
lostforwords Posted December 23, 2003 Share Posted December 23, 2003 I don't know of any man who has waited of his own volition. Such sensitive guys may be out there, but I don't know of any. I know i havent met any Link to post Share on other sites
dyermaker Posted December 23, 2003 Share Posted December 23, 2003 It was certainly my choice to wait. I'd rather not be a father yet, thank you very much. There was a time when, when someone chose to wait until marriage to have sex, it was normal, not unheard of. Link to post Share on other sites
tattoomytoe Posted December 23, 2003 Share Posted December 23, 2003 i am usually pretty quick to hop in the sack, but my current bf we waited 4 months, cause i figured all my other relationships sucked, so i would wait cause i actually liked this guy... and we are still going strong after a year(my longest relationship) he asked a couple times before though. Link to post Share on other sites
UCFKevin Posted December 23, 2003 Share Posted December 23, 2003 Man. The longest I've waited was like a week or so, at the most. I think. In a perfect world, I'd be able to wait as long as it takes, but damn...I'm only human. But this girl I'm seeing now, I'm gonna try to wait it out as long as I possibly can. Might as well. I went 18 years of my life sexless, it ain't hard to do. I don't really think there's anything necessarily wrong with sex on the first date or early on, if it feels right, do it. Link to post Share on other sites
Errol Posted December 23, 2003 Share Posted December 23, 2003 Until a commitment was made. Link to post Share on other sites
mjk Posted December 23, 2003 Share Posted December 23, 2003 Don't cha all think there might be a few steps involved here unless you just want to hump? How about: Step 1. Attraction- no sex yet Step 2. Uncertainty-not sure if you are right for each other etc.-no sex yet Step 3. Exclusivity-deciding you both want to date only each other-Damn...still no sex Step 4. Intimacy- Hurrah, Hurrah, finally there is sex but...it now has meaning and it is great! Step 5. Ya get married- If it all works out. Okay, So I'm guilty of jumping the ? (gun, what did you think I was goning to say?) I've done it the first night, i've waited two to four weeks. it depends on the situation for me. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Caddy Posted December 23, 2003 Author Share Posted December 23, 2003 Originally posted by UCFKevin Man. The longest I've waited was like a week or so, at the most. I think. In a perfect world, I'd be able to wait as long as it takes, but damn...I'm only human. But this girl I'm seeing now, I'm gonna try to wait it out as long as I possibly can. Might as well. I went 18 years of my life sexless, it ain't hard to do. I don't really think there's anything necessarily wrong with sex on the first date or early on, if it feels right, do it. You're seeing someone? That breaks my heart! How serious is it? LOL Link to post Share on other sites
UCFKevin Posted December 23, 2003 Share Posted December 23, 2003 Not very. You made my face all warm... Link to post Share on other sites
Author Caddy Posted December 23, 2003 Author Share Posted December 23, 2003 Originally posted by UCFKevin Not very. You made my face all warm... Oh Really Now? I can do more than warm you up baby Link to post Share on other sites
bark Posted December 23, 2003 Share Posted December 23, 2003 Quick, someone get a hose and cool these two down! Link to post Share on other sites
UCFKevin Posted December 24, 2003 Share Posted December 24, 2003 Merry Christmas to me! Link to post Share on other sites
mjk Posted December 24, 2003 Share Posted December 24, 2003 FIRE! FIRE! Everybody clear out! Link to post Share on other sites
jenny Posted December 24, 2003 Share Posted December 24, 2003 despite my talk, i waited a long time. i had two long term relationships where i did not have intercourse; the next one felt pretty right after about seventeen dates. Link to post Share on other sites
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