Author lostboyuk Posted January 7, 2010 Author Share Posted January 7, 2010 You know that's a really good way to put it, pretty much what I was thinking. I can't be bothered with NC, don't need to, I'm pretty relaxed with it all now. Think I'll just go for whatever I feel like doing at the time. Haven't replied to email or text, I'll leave it a while I think. See what she says next. I know ignoring her will make her very very upset, no need for animosity or games. Squeak! Cheers Simon Link to post Share on other sites
Heartbrokenandinlove Posted January 7, 2010 Share Posted January 7, 2010 Ive got to be honest my friend, I'm doing really well! Listen I want to thank you for your advice again. You were absolutely right, I had to be and have been myself throughout this, although I didn't feel myself at the time. I somehow knew I had to go to the bottom to come back, no idea why at all, just knew. I was at the bottom last night but felt a sense of release/relief/peace/calm or something afterwards. Felt like a shadow most if the day, no substance at all. This breakup comes with all kinds of other issues (financial, etc) but suddenly this pm, things just started falling into place! Good offer on a new house to rent, family offering lend me money and a little excitement about getting my own place dare I say it! I know I'm a mess still but I'm being a mess in style and with some control!!! Listen it's heartbreaking, but if you truly believe your lovely lady is unwell it does give some comfort that it is not you and you are an amazing person who only wanted for your love to be all she could be. It's heartbreaking but beautiful at the same time. Try to accept the peace that comes with that feeling, it's quite enlightening. I'm really glad things seem to be looking up for you mate and i'm really glad I could offer you some supporting words....Keep positive and keep thinking of the future now... I feel like we are going through very similar things...my break up has financial issues too - but you know what - as long as you have your self respect and your health things will fall into place!! Good work! Link to post Share on other sites
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