Couture Posted December 23, 2003 Share Posted December 23, 2003 I recently met a guy at university and I’m not sure whether to pursue anything with him because he has a reputation within the university as a player, but I can’t work out if I’ve actually been “played”? We met about a month ago and chatted but I was fairly drunk and a friend introduced us, I didn’t see him again until about a few weeks ago at a social and he was with a girl, talking to my friends I went over to say hello and he pulled me to one side and told me he thought I was gorgeous and remembered meeting me. So I went onto the dance floor with my friends and he followed we ended up kissing and went and sat down when he told me that he wanted to ask who I was to my friends but didn’t want to appear an idiot. So I was separated from my friends who assumed I had gone home and he offered to walk me home, but we ended up at his and I didn’t intend to sleep with him it just kind of happened. I thought it would be awkward in the morning but he cuddled me through the night and whilst I was out of the room took my number off my phone, which was on the bedside table and he also said “I could get used to this?” A couple of days later I got a several SMS from him insinuating he’d like to see me again, but I was going away on a trip the next week so I didn’t see him, but ask my friend if he had said anything about me and whether he was interested in me, he said that if I were to go to a few more events next term I could do quite well because he is quite interested in you and my other friend agreed that he liked me because he kept saying how gorgeous he thought I was. BUT he had slept with a lacrosse player that night because I was away and we were breaking up for Christmas for 3 weeks. But strangely enough it doesn’t bother me because we weren’t going to see each other for about a month anyway and I’ve also seen other people but I can’t stop thinking about this guy! And don’t know how to play it next term? Link to post Share on other sites
Tony T Posted December 23, 2003 Share Posted December 23, 2003 If you want to see him again, ask him to give you a number. Being played is OK if you're a willing subject. You won't get anywhere with this dude for some years. He's having way too much fun with eager ladies like yourself. Link to post Share on other sites
ziggue Posted December 24, 2003 Share Posted December 24, 2003 I agree with Tony ask him for his number if you want to see him again. Just don't get to attatched to him or otherwise you might get hurt. Just have go out and have fun with him! Link to post Share on other sites
AllyKat Posted December 24, 2003 Share Posted December 24, 2003 Beware! I mean if you meant that much and were so gorgeous to him, why would he sleep with someone else? Guys like this tell ALOT of women how wonderful they are. Just be careful. Link to post Share on other sites
mjk Posted December 24, 2003 Share Posted December 24, 2003 Play Ball!! You got played and if that's okay with you...cool. if not, follow AllyKat's advice Link to post Share on other sites
SportyChick7 Posted December 25, 2003 Share Posted December 25, 2003 I "dated" a player and it was the craziest time of my life! I was always confused and frusterated and never knew if it would go anywhere....well it didn't. I realize now that i have a wonderful guy that players are fun for a short road trip, but for the journey they just aint no good! Link to post Share on other sites
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