Jealousy??

[yorkshire_lad]

Hiya this is just a quick question really because im not sure its just me going mad or what but here goes,

 

Everyti,e my fiancee get`s a txt or fone call of her ex bf or some of her male friends who i know like her and would try anything to get with her,well i might be being daft but it just seems to get me rather Jealous i know i should`nt be because its me she is engaged to and we love each other so much its like we seem to have a really outstanding nite together and then at end of the nite she might get a txt of her ex so i was just wondering

 

is Jealousy normal or am i just being stupid?

[jmargel]

Does she call them back? What does she do when they do text her? If you two are engaged she needs to start respecting you & the relationship. If you told her how you felt about it, and she's not willing to budge then there could be an issue.

 

I would be jealous myself. I'm kinda in the same boat as you. My gf has an ex that wants her back and they still talk from time to time. Its normal to be jealous, just don't let it start to control you or her. My best advice would be to talk to her about it & tell her that it bothers you quite a bit that she's letting them continue contact with her. Personally I would feel funny about getting text messages at night from an ex. I'm sure she wouldnt like it, if some chick kept calling you at night on your cell..

[mjk]

To me thats a biggie. I'd say sit down with her and ask why she needs this contact. It takes two to "tango" and she is allowing these messages. Your engagement to me means a higher level of concern for each other

[AllyKat]

Does she let you look at the text? Or hide it?

 

Would she like it if you did that to her? I doubt it.

 

Have you tried talking to her about it? What has she said?

 

Ex's are ex's for a reason, she needs to let go of them, and move on with you.