janelim Posted June 21, 2000 Share Posted June 21, 2000 hi... Have this feeling that guys treat sex and love as two seperate things. For most girls love and sex goes hand in hand (at least that's for me ) but for guys sex is just for fun. They can have sex without love. What's your opinion?? Am I too conservative or do many gals out there feel that sex and love should go hand in hand? Link to post Share on other sites
Heather Posted June 21, 2000 Share Posted June 21, 2000 Hey there, Guys are built that way. Do you think that they are wrong for it? Just a question - I love male vs female debates it helps me to understand more hi... Have this feeling that guys treat sex and love as two seperate things. For most girls love and sex goes hand in hand (at least that's for me ) but for guys sex is just for fun. They can have sex without love. What's your opinion?? Am I too conservative or do many gals out there feel that sex and love should go hand in hand? Link to post Share on other sites
Dave Posted June 21, 2000 Share Posted June 21, 2000 very good site visit, it explains everything... http://www.solosingles.com/ssintimate/ hi... Have this feeling that guys treat sex and love as two seperate things. For most girls love and sex goes hand in hand (at least that's for me ) but for guys sex is just for fun. They can have sex without love. What's your opinion?? Am I too conservative or do many gals out there feel that sex and love should go hand in hand? Link to post Share on other sites
Nina Posted June 21, 2000 Share Posted June 21, 2000 You are correct, and empirical observation isn't the only thing that tells us this is so. A lot of psychologists have studied this phenomenon, too. Evolutionarily speaking, men are physically capable of impregnating several women. This ensures the survival of their genes. Extreme cases of this are sheiks with large harems...back in the middle ages, I think the King of Siam sired over 800 children. Women, on the other hand, can only bear so many children, so they seek a sexual partner who will invest time and resources into them so that they can provide well for the few children they can bear, thus ensuring their genetic survival. So, men can have sex without emotional involvement, but women seek that bond because it has been bred into us for hundreds of years, the women's lib movemnet all aside. But there are exceptions to this rule, because personality traits can affect sexual involvement. Some women who were sexually abused in their past can feel removed from a sexual situation, enabling them to have sex without forming desiring that bond. This is because they associate the sexual act with negative feelings. hi... Have this feeling that guys treat sex and love as two seperate things. For most girls love and sex goes hand in hand (at least that's for me ) but for guys sex is just for fun. They can have sex without love. What's your opinion?? Am I too conservative or do many gals out there feel that sex and love should go hand in hand? Link to post Share on other sites
magicklady Posted June 21, 2000 Share Posted June 21, 2000 Somtimes it does go hand in hand and sometimes..it is nice just to have SEX... I think that women are raised to believe that love and sex are supposed to go hand in hand.. where most men are raised to enjoy sexuality and women to the fullest... I think their is also a stigma placed on women who like to have casual sex.. they are called... Whores', Sluts', just to name a few... so We tend to hid the fact that we do Like to just have sex without love... Link to post Share on other sites
Heather Posted June 21, 2000 Share Posted June 21, 2000 Tell it like it is girl, society says that women are to be totally discreet - a tiger in the bedroom and a lady in the livingroom - what a crock! These women (whores and sluts) are the ones having fun! Women over-analyse things Somtimes it does go hand in hand and sometimes..it is nice just to have SEX... I think that women are raised to believe that love and sex are supposed to go hand in hand.. where most men are raised to enjoy sexuality and women to the fullest... I think their is also a stigma placed on women who like to have casual sex.. they are called... Whores', Sluts', just to name a few... so We tend to hid the fact that we do Like to just have sex without love... Link to post Share on other sites
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