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is there a way I could add you to my facebook?

 

 

e-mail my spam e-mail your info and i'll find you :)

 

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i'm Rob, by the way. :o

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Like you, I have been in an abusive relationship which I left 5 years ago, yet I still carry the scars and probably always will

 

Lishy, for all the time I've been on this site, I never picked up on the fact that you were once in an abusive relationship. How did I miss that? I'm sorry that happened to you, and I'm glad you're out of it. Like you, I sometimes think that the scars he left are, in some ways, eternal.

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Lishy, for all the time I've been on this site, I never picked up on the fact that you were once in an abusive relationship. How did I miss that? I'm sorry that happened to you, and I'm glad you're out of it. Like you, I sometimes think that the scars he left are, in some ways, eternal.

 

Yes Angel, I was in a terrible abusive relationship. I am sort of over it now so I dont bring it up unless someone is going through the same sort of thing

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OK I'm a guy who's never harmed a girl in his life. Well maybe what I did to try to get her to leave me alone may be considered abuse, but. Yet I hear from so many women about there abusive relationships. I need to know what you all consider abusive?

The last women I went out with always gave me examples of her abusive relationship, well now that I can care less about her many of her long time friends have contacted me. And I am convinced the Abuse is in her head.

I've posted my story here in the past so I'm not going to get into the whole thing, I have definitely in my opinion been used big time along with my kids to me that abuse.

She now is telling everyone or her BF anyway that I abused her for three years, (she has half the crackhead community feeling sorry for her) so one day he was blabbing uncontrollably to someone about me. So the next time my ex was seen by my friend who she didn't know was a long time friend.

 

He struck up a conversation about me, here's her idea of being ABUSED.

 

1) After three years I wouldn't move in together(we have six kids between us) But I did ask her to marry me and she accepted. Abuse. She said that was horrible.

2) I wouldn't pay her bills for her and her new CH live-in does. Well I have three kids of my own to raise. Really abusive!!!

3) I had blueprints changed for a house I was going to build, needed to be five rooms instead of three, but not until we were married. How could he do that to me.

4) Her car was old and never taken care of, she wanted to buy a new one I agreed but it would be half and half until we were married. Couldn't trade her in though because it was in someone else's name ? Isn't that just crazy abuse.

 

Now mind you I took care of her kids, took care of her place, cut the grass, painted, any maintenance at all at my cost, laundry and a host of other things. Dinner out once a week cost us $150.00+. A trip to the ice cream shop in the summer cost $50.00. She got flowers at least every 2-3 weeks. I had dinner made for her when she came home everyday, not dogs and burgers a real meal. I could go on of the things I've done for her. And in three years I never raised my voice or a hand to her.

I will admit for three years she was as near a perfect women as you could get. Much closer to perfect the I ever was.

I wish I was abused like that. Oh well enough ranting.

 

Now is this your idea of abuse.

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No, I would not consider that abuse lol

 

Thanks I was ranting a little because the ex knows she blew it by dumping me and won't leave me alone now.

 

Thank you I really didn't think so but she does.

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She sounds like the sort of woman who loves to be the victim! You have not lost alot!

 

I just can't figure out if I was that dumb or she was that good. LOL

The three years we were together were nearly perfect, one night we went to bed the next morning she was gone.

I never thought about the victim part, yes that fits her perfectly, Wow so right, she had some really good jobs that I got her by the way that she always lost because of this one or that one and I always supported her decisions.

Well she's now working a min. wage job from $700.00 per week managerial position I got her through some friends.

I have to ponder this some more. The Victim.

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OK I'm a guy who's never harmed a girl in his life. Well maybe what I did to try to get her to leave me alone may be considered abuse, but. Yet I hear from so many women about there abusive relationships. I need to know what you all consider abusive?

 

Your ex was an idiot. Be glad you're rid of her.

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