babymello19 Posted January 7, 2010 Share Posted January 7, 2010 Hey Guys!!! I'm new to this site and I would appreciate it if you help me with my problem. My bf and I have been together for almost 2 years now and lived with each other for 1 year. I love my bf so much and I have no doubt in my mind that he loves me also, things were going smoothly between US, up until today. I know that I'm not suppose to do what I did, but I did it for a reason. I went online just a few hours ago and checked his email. My bf had sent a mass email to all of his friends saying "happy new years". Including this one asian girl that he recently stop talking to because she was not replying to any of his past emails to her and also because she was not picking up any of his past phone calls. So anyway, as I was checking his email, it got to my attention that she replied back to my bf's recent email. I started to panic. I don't know what to do. My bf told me that she is nothing but a friend, but in the past he's been sending her emails saying that he wants to see her and that he wants to go to trips with her because he has nobody to go with. Umm, hello?? did he forget about me?? his girlfriend?? we could do so many things together. But besides that, what I'm really afraid of is his response to her email. For sure he would give her a call again when I'm not around and continue to have contact with her once again. Even though he emailed her before saying "I'm not going to bother you anymore." GUYS I REALLY NEED YOUR HELP ABOUT THIS!!! DO I HAVE A GOOD REASON TO BE PARANOID ABOUT THIS??? I'm tired of covering up my emotions about this issue and hiding the fact that I check my bf's email. What should I do??? any suggestions will help, thx!!! Link to post Share on other sites
Javelin Posted January 8, 2010 Share Posted January 8, 2010 Hey Guys!!! I'm new to this site and I would appreciate it if you help me with my problem. My bf and I have been together for almost 2 years now and lived with each other for 1 year. I love my bf so much and I have no doubt in my mind that he loves me also, things were going smoothly between US, up until today. I know that I'm not suppose to do what I did, but I did it for a reason. I went online just a few hours ago and checked his email. My bf had sent a mass email to all of his friends saying "happy new years". Including this one asian girl that he recently stop talking to because she was not replying to any of his past emails to her and also because she was not picking up any of his past phone calls. So anyway, as I was checking his email, it got to my attention that she replied back to my bf's recent email. I started to panic. I don't know what to do. My bf told me that she is nothing but a friend, but in the past he's been sending her emails saying that he wants to see her and that he wants to go to trips with her because he has nobody to go with. Umm, hello?? did he forget about me?? his girlfriend?? we could do so many things together. But besides that, what I'm really afraid of is his response to her email. For sure he would give her a call again when I'm not around and continue to have contact with her once again. Even though he emailed her before saying "I'm not going to bother you anymore." GUYS I REALLY NEED YOUR HELP ABOUT THIS!!! DO I HAVE A GOOD REASON TO BE PARANOID ABOUT THIS??? I'm tired of covering up my emotions about this issue and hiding the fact that I check my bf's email. What should I do??? any suggestions will help, thx!!! What he's doing is totally disrespectful and awhile it was wrong of you to snoop, you've had good reason to do so. What to do from here? You should print out the emails and confront him about them. Unfortunately, as this is a serious breach in trust, your relationship may never be the same. Link to post Share on other sites
ducknrun Posted January 8, 2010 Share Posted January 8, 2010 Did you read that first email? And have you continued to read his emails? Link to post Share on other sites
BlueeyedJonesy Posted January 8, 2010 Share Posted January 8, 2010 There is no reason to stay with him at this point. You have been together for 1 year and he is already doing things behind your back. TRUST ME if your snooping already you need to RUN! Link to post Share on other sites
Woman In Blue Posted January 8, 2010 Share Posted January 8, 2010 Assuming you're not a drive-by poster and will be back to actually read the responses people take the time to write, I'm wondering why you've left out some vital information in your post - like what the Asian girl's email actually SAID? You claim you're afraid of what his response will be, but what did her email SAY? In either event, it's quite clear he has some "unfinished" business with her since he seems to be constantly trying to get her attention AND telling her he "needs someone to go on trips with." What a loser. He only sees you as an OPTION. Aim higher. Link to post Share on other sites
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