Romance Posted January 8, 2010 Share Posted January 8, 2010 I find myself constantly thinking about my boyfriend! And uh, I'd like to stop haha. I'm just always thinking about him and our relationship and it makes me sad. Like, I miss him a lot and I focus on it and almost want to cry I'm driving myself nuts! I do the whole girls night, go out with my friends, watch a movie etc. I mean, I have a life..and I don't let thinking of him hold me back..But how do I not focus on him constantly? Link to post Share on other sites
Flavour Posted January 8, 2010 Share Posted January 8, 2010 Focus on him then, why you should stop? It would be the same even if he was near you I suppose. Maybe that thinking about him constantly you will find new ideas to sort things out :-) Link to post Share on other sites
Lovin a scrapper Posted January 8, 2010 Share Posted January 8, 2010 Personally I love focusing on Rayette. She is my everything so why wouldnt I? Link to post Share on other sites
Rollercoasterr Posted January 8, 2010 Share Posted January 8, 2010 I enjoy thinking about Mathew every second of the day. I may be sad to be without him, but his memory keeps my heart safe and warm. Link to post Share on other sites
SophieA Posted January 8, 2010 Share Posted January 8, 2010 (edited) I don't really think you can ever stop thinking about them. You just have to focus on trying to remain positive If you do stop missing them/thinking about them for extended periods of time, then you probably don't have a strong enough bond to maintain a LD relationship. I mean, I stay busy too...work ft, school ft, gym, friends etc...but the longing to hold his hand, to tell him something funny that just happened, to fall asleep/wake up next to him is always there. Edited January 8, 2010 by SophieA I can't spell today :) Link to post Share on other sites
Author Romance Posted January 8, 2010 Author Share Posted January 8, 2010 Hmm, I guess it is just..normal then. I guess it is probably also because we text most of the day. Link to post Share on other sites
hoping2heal Posted January 8, 2010 Share Posted January 8, 2010 Thinking about them isn't the problem. I think about my honey pretty much every minute (or more haha!) but it makes me happy and lively and inspires me. It makes my heart soar, I don't feel sad about it. Do you two have an end date you can remind yourself of? Are you insecure about wether the relationship will make it? You seem to be mourning him almost. Link to post Share on other sites
Rollercoasterr Posted January 8, 2010 Share Posted January 8, 2010 Hmm, I guess it is just..normal then. I guess it is probably also because we text most of the day. Mathew and I email, IM and call each other pretty much all day long. Our work gives us access to email. When he's at home and I'm at work we can IM. When I come home we call each other and talk like we're teenagers. You'd think we'd be sick of each other, but nope. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Romance Posted January 8, 2010 Author Share Posted January 8, 2010 Thinking about them isn't the problem. I think about my honey pretty much every minute (or more haha!) but it makes me happy and lively and inspires me. It makes my heart soar, I don't feel sad about it. Do you two have an end date you can remind yourself of? Are you insecure about wether the relationship will make it? You seem to be mourning him almost. No end date but we see each other rather often for being long distance (Usually 2 weekends a month!) And I'm fairy sure our relationship will make it, i have no worries about it at all, he's a great guy. I dunno! he's my first real relationship and i'm only 19, maybe i'm just..being girly. Link to post Share on other sites
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