Best friend of my ex gf contacted me after 1 month of NC....is there any sign...??

[fesovit]

best friend of my ex gf called me up 1 month after the break up.....i maintained NC. She was asking about my life that how am i doing and where is putting up.....is there any siign of concern from my ex...????

[gaudi]

Hard to say from what you've posted here.

How close where you and her friend originally, was she the type of person who would normally call you as a friend anyway ?? Or is her getting in contact with you completely out of the ordinary ???

 

Either way mate, I wouldn't build up hope as no matter what ideas you have. It is not your EX who has gotten in touch.

[fesovit]

dear friend,

my relationship was 8 months old and at the time of start of relationship best friend of my ex approached me for having friendship with her friend.

at the end of the day my ex used to call me ......but she left me for becoming angry on a small thing.......... i maintained NC.....now after 1 month that very best friend of ex calls me and asks me...how am i doing and where am i..??.........moreover she is sending me sms on every festival......is there any sign from my ex....??

[lost_4_words]

I have to agree with gaudi, but just a hunch she might be trying to gather info for your ex since you've gone nc for a month. When my ex left me her friend used to passby my workplace to see how I'm doin, maybe just being polite or just phishing for info, either way not worth the time to analyze. Stay strong dude 1 month into nc doing good!

[fesovit]

thanx for lukin into the matter.......so shud i reply if ex's friend is sending me festival sms.......i am not surev wat to do if that friend sends me sms.......give some suggestion plzzzz

[Silver_star]

I think thats a personal choice. I wouldnt, personally.

It will keep you in the "loop" of drama, and will only make things more complicated.

[gaudi]

I think thats a personal choice. I wouldnt, personally.

It will keep you in the "loop" of drama, and will only make things more complicated.

 

This is probably correct. Keeping in touch with those or that which remind you of your EX cannot be healthy. I think total NC with your EX and her friend/s is the best way.

 

But then again, I don't know the whole story.

If this girl (EX's friend) is someone whose friendship you value, and you believe you can keep in with her without it being a way of somehow staying tied to your EX. Then that's up to you to decide.

 

But do you seriously think you can get over your EX by staying in touch with one of HER friends ??

I know I couldn't.