neely Posted December 27, 2003 Share Posted December 27, 2003 I have posted about this situation before.....and got some responses that helped but i am still thinking about it like crazy......i told this girl who i have been great....well i consider best friends with for about a year....we got very close during the year.....i told her my feelings early on.....that i was attracted to her....but she didnt want to be involved with anyone on that level so i stayed friends....we got closer.....i met someone else.....and stayed with her for about 3 months.....and still talked to my friend regularly.....during that time she started messing with someone as well...... the both situations with other people didnt work out.....and we helped each other deal with them....until finally letting them go......Now we were hanging out more obviously.....and my feeling for her resurfaced......until we stayed over in my bed one night and we basically only cuddled all night....it was great....someone i really like and am into.....and just held each other.....the next week went by and i talked to others about this.....they said i am crazy....i mean if she didnt like me she wouldnt stay in my bed.....i didnt want to try anything physical with her cause i know she doesnt want anything right now......and i think it would ruin the friendship..... The thing is...is that we hang out with other people alot and it drives me nuts when im around her.....i want her so bad...... we talked after about the sleeping at my bed and i also told her my feeling havent changed they just grew....and she basically has no response.....like she is trying to deny it.....i believe people are put in peoples lives for reasons.....and i think we are meant for eachother i just dont know what do say or do about...it....i am just trying to let her be her...and maybe it would work out......any advice? Link to post Share on other sites
moimeme Posted December 27, 2003 Share Posted December 27, 2003 i believe people are put in peoples lives for reasons Unfortunately, it seems that sometimes that reason is to learn that you don't always get your heart's desire Link to post Share on other sites
Vivid_29 Posted December 27, 2003 Share Posted December 27, 2003 Originally posted by moimeme i believe people are put in peoples lives for reasons Unfortunately, it seems that sometimes that reason is to learn that you don't always get your heart's desire I'm with Moimeme. There are some things that we just can't help or change. Don't drain yourself trying either. Let nature take its course. ~V Link to post Share on other sites
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