youngatheart Posted January 16, 2010 Share Posted January 16, 2010 Ex says he is serious about new girlfriend, wants it to work w/ her & sees a future w/ her but is trying to have sex w/ me. Is he truly serious about her? If not, why is he saying he is? Link to post Share on other sites
GBP12 Posted January 16, 2010 Share Posted January 16, 2010 Because he's horny and wants to have sex with both of you, and having his new girlfriend around makes you want him more, whether you're going to admit that or not. Link to post Share on other sites
bananaboat11 Posted January 16, 2010 Share Posted January 16, 2010 He is trying to feed his ego. Stupid boy. No contact. Move on with your life. you're better than that! He's a douche. I hate guys like that... makes the good guys like me suffer when good girls like you foolishly give in... Link to post Share on other sites
LovelyDaze Posted January 16, 2010 Share Posted January 16, 2010 Ex says he is serious about new girlfriend, wants it to work w/ her & sees a future w/ her but is trying to have sex w/ me. Is he truly serious about her? If not, why is he saying he is? Oh my goodness. If you read my earlier posts, you will know that I can relate to your question in depth. No, he doesn't love either one of you. Not at all. My ex was on the same road, asking me if we can reunite and after I said no, he went right back to the person he left me for. Your ex probably DOES want a future with his current girlfriend. You want to know why? Because he knows that regardless of his awful behavior, she will accept anything and surely has a deep feeling in her own gut that he is not true. This is not call love. It's selfish, manipulitive, ego-brushing. There are a lot of guys like your ex and mine that would love nothing more than to have two women to choose from on whatever day he feels up to it. He is saying he is serious about her to keep you at bay from anything serious between you two because he doesn't have the capability of being true to anyone at this point. Think about the new girlfriend's point of you. How would you like your boyfriend to want to touch, caress, and kiss his ex? Would you feel loved? YOU are the lucky one. I figured that out after my ex had the audacity to ask if I will wait for him when he returns from Afghanistan in 2011! Hello? He is ENGAGED now!!!?! What a douche, right? THAT'S when it really was clear to me that I needed to go NC and NEVER talk to him again. Do the same. Get away from that idiot. He may have loved you before but now,he just wants you as a default girlfriend, a chick on the side, a pacifier for his lamebrained life. Find it in you to not accept his calls one time more. You deserve to be the ONLY ONE and loved for the beautiful person you are. Find your worth. Link to post Share on other sites
gaudi Posted January 16, 2010 Share Posted January 16, 2010 Ex says he is serious about new girlfriend, wants it to work w/ her & sees a future w/ her but is trying to have sex w/ me. Is he truly serious about her? If not, why is he saying he is? Is her serious about her ?? What do you think ?? Why is he saying this ?? er, Cake and Eat It ?? Tell him NO, and leave him to go and try pull this s**t with someone dumb enough to fall for it. He isn't a man, he's an a** !! Link to post Share on other sites
Soul Bear Posted January 16, 2010 Share Posted January 16, 2010 Yeah it's an ego thing...it'll make him feel better, when really what you need to do if he is to ever learn his lesson is to tell him to get... What a sleaze....if he is willing to do that his new gf...i dread to think what he was like with you behind your back... Move on girl, and be thankful you dont have to mix with such a shallow and conceited person anymore. KNOW YOUR WORTH!! Link to post Share on other sites
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