Kevin Kristopher Posted December 28, 2003 Share Posted December 28, 2003 I just posted a thread about giving my ex-girlfriend space and how I need to stop contact with her so i can get over the hurt and stuff. I tried to do that and then something happened where i agreed for us to stay in contact and talk and it's been pretty cool but she doesn't seem like she is into the conversation as much as me or i'd like her to be. We've been broken up for like 2 months but we still had She is always the one to initiate getting off the phone and our conversations haven't been over 20 minutes in like a really long time. We had a good conversation last night but she was the one who wanted to get off the phone first after like 17 minutes of talking and i told her i loved her and she told me she loved me. So since she thinks everything is fine how do i go about telling her i need to stop contact with her for a little while?? thanx Link to post Share on other sites
hankhill67 Posted December 28, 2003 Share Posted December 28, 2003 I am going thru the same thing... except mine just happened last week..... she told me that she needed a break from a relationship to think about things... then she calls 2 days later and says she misses me so bad..... I am so confused right now..... she called today but I didn't answer the phone...... I want to talk to her so bad, but in another way I think I should leave her alone for her to think...... Why do women do this ???? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Kevin Kristopher Posted December 29, 2003 Author Share Posted December 29, 2003 yeah i feel yah, well i think you guys need to talk, ask her want she wants from you and tell her what you want from her. What ever it is that she wants, if it's okay with you, you have to respect it, and if its not you need to let her know, and if you guys can't come to an agreement may'be you guys should stop contact for like a week. I dunno, i'm pretty new to this also. good luck Link to post Share on other sites
trulyme Posted December 29, 2003 Share Posted December 29, 2003 Think about it guys. We all have met someone and called them and when they don't call us back, what do we do?? We freak out and want them more. What are they doing, why are they not calling me back, did I do something wrong?? All of these. What is your goal with these women?? Obviously you want them back since you are posting on second chances. Ignore some calls for a while and return them rarely.....then see what happens. Trust me on the smothering thing...it dont work. Read my other post. We all want what we can't have. Look at you right now, you want her back and you can't have her back (at this particular time) and you are wanting her MORE. Kill the contact.....and tell her to take her time and leave it at that. Its a good test anyways.....if she comes back she probably killed her urge to search for someone better and now you look like a 10 in her eyes. Or she is desperate and can't find someone else (lol, which we hope is not the case). Drew Link to post Share on other sites
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