myblacktea Posted January 17, 2010 Share Posted January 17, 2010 (edited) Well, my bf's 18th birthday was coming up so for thet night he was going out with his friends to the city, i was feeling extrememly guilty because he wouldnt be able to enjoy it properly since his in a relationship and all. and so i sort of allowed him to have a visit to kingscross and all. so next day he calls me to tell me about his night out. so he tells me how they went to a strip club and had a lapdance. i was quite offended buht i couldnt do anything since i hadnt made it a ground rule. and so i got over it. last night he went out with his brother and b4 going he told me thet he was going to get a lapdance. and so i got really pissed off and told him off. now i dunnoe what to do? should i just let it go since he is a good bf and is very honest with me or should i make this a serious fight ? :confused: extremely confused and dunnoe what to think. please advise! Edited January 17, 2010 by myblacktea Link to post Share on other sites
Jade 02 Posted January 17, 2010 Share Posted January 17, 2010 Yeah I'd let it go,I believe thats all that happened from just what you exsplained, I know its hard to swallow though,but show love,show trust. It was his 18th,and thats a big deal to a guy or girl,I am sure you will have your chance when your girls want to take you to a strip dance with males dancing. best wishes Link to post Share on other sites
Author myblacktea Posted January 17, 2010 Author Share Posted January 17, 2010 Yeah I'd let it go,I believe thats all that happened from just what you exsplained, I know its hard to swallow though,but show love,show trust. It was his 18th,and thats a big deal to a guy or girl,I am sure you will have your chance when your girls want to take you to a strip dance with males dancing. best wishes Thankyou!!! and yehh besides i do trust him, i htink my insecurity got in the way buht i love him way too much to let this get in our way =] =] Link to post Share on other sites
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