worried about my civil partnership

[parkeruk1]

uys,

just looking for some advice really, i have

been with my civil partner for 5 years, we

used to go out for meals, and enjoy nights

in cuddling etc we have been on many holidays together, and have been through a lot because he was not a british citizen , and have fought to stay together. ,recently he has been very

cold towards me i have to make the first move

for hugs kisses etc it really worries me

something is wrong, its been like this for

just over a year since he has started uni, i

am 42 he is 27. he dosent talk much yet when

his uni mates are online he talks to them for

ages, recently he went home (to romania) for

christmas, i didnt get many texts from him

only the answers to mine (i know its

expensive) when he came home again there was

no hug when i met him (well i did but again

made the first move)

he said his head has been so full of exams

and studying for uni that he cannot

concentrate on anything else, i know he

struggles with essays, but yet he still finds

time for his mates, in fact the first night

after he came home from the month away , he

went out with them even though i went down to

stay (we have a flat but i am also at my

parents) that left me feeling rejected and

lonely.

due to my serious financial situation it

looks like we will have to move out of outr

flat and he is talking about getting a

student room, this of course will make it

difficult for us to be together but he says

we have no choice.

 

one thing i havent mentioned but is important

ia that by being my civil partner he became a

british citizen, i didnt enter into it for

that reason neither did he so i believe, but

i cant help thinking that all this has

changed Since he got his british passport, i

hope im wrong, he still talks of our future

but i am seriously worried that i cannot

sleep and have high blood pressure, already

bad due to my finances and possibilty of

going bankrupt any advice would help i dont know who to turn to , i still love him so much and he is my best friend to

[rina_r]

42 vs 27, got changed after got his British citizenship - it is clear he used you just for citizenship!