dreamergrl Posted January 18, 2010 Share Posted January 18, 2010 Never happened. Why? Explain to me why none of our experiences never happened? Why are we all liars? What reason do we have to lie? We aren't the ones with insecurity over our height. We aren't the ones crying over it and making thread after thread over it. We aren't the ones blaming our problems on other people and other issues. So why are WE the LIARS? Link to post Share on other sites
TheBigQuestion Posted January 18, 2010 Share Posted January 18, 2010 Never happened. What makes you so sure? I know this person very well. Link to post Share on other sites
mem11363 Posted January 18, 2010 Share Posted January 18, 2010 JS, This is a great post. I give you a lot of credit for putting this out there. I would just like to share two of my more recent dating experiences. I went out with two different men these past two months. One was all of 5'5 and the other was 5'6 AND heavy (over-weight..whatever you want to call it) and both of them ended up rejecting me. The 5'5 guy I was attracted to. The 5'6 guy I decided to give a chance becaues he was fun to talk to and is a talented muscian. I am in no way ugly and have infact dated men 6+. I work out regularly, I am quite charming, and do not pester men with questions about their baby making abilities. I am not super hot..I am pretty cute though. I get cat-called on the street sometimes. So I am sick and tired of seeing the average guys here complain how the super hot chick doesn't want him. Boohoo. Sometimes the average 5'6" or less guy doesn't want the girl either. Which is fine. Because I am not broken hearted over these guys. But I liked them both enough to at least want to date them longer and get to know them. Neither was interested in me for the same. I am just sharing this to point out the fact that 5'5" guys reject too. And that they are not just rejected. Both of those guys would have been lucky to be with me. And I don't say that arrogantly at all. Link to post Share on other sites
theBrokenMuse Posted January 18, 2010 Share Posted January 18, 2010 Never happened. it's amazing what we can convince ourselves of in order to keep from facing unpleasant realities. Link to post Share on other sites
OpenGL Posted January 18, 2010 Share Posted January 18, 2010 it's amazing what we can convince ourselves of in order to keep from facing unpleasant realities. What unpleasant realities? Link to post Share on other sites
dreamergrl Posted January 18, 2010 Share Posted January 18, 2010 Never happened. Why? Explain to me why none of our experiences never happened? Why are we all liars? What reason do we have to lie? We aren't the ones with insecurity over our height. We aren't the ones crying over it and making thread after thread over it. We aren't the ones blaming our problems on other people and other issues. So why are WE the LIARS? Are you going to answer this, or just avoid because you have no answer? Link to post Share on other sites
OpenGL Posted January 18, 2010 Share Posted January 18, 2010 Why? Explain to me why none of our experiences never happened? Why are we all liars? What reason do we have to lie? We aren't the ones with insecurity over our height. We aren't the ones crying over it and making thread after thread over it. We aren't the ones blaming our problems on other people and other issues. So why are WE the LIARS? You have reason to lie because if you don't it makes you're entire gender look like shallow and pathetic human beings, sort of like Miss Jones. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Jersey Shortie Posted January 18, 2010 Author Share Posted January 18, 2010 JS, This is a great post. I give you a lot of credit for putting this out there. What bitter man wouldn't love reading a good post about a female being rejected. I have no dbout you do. Why would you give me credit for putting it out there? It's only men that believe women don't get rejected, or if we get rejected we are hidious monsters and not worthy of love to begin with. I am not embaressed by being rejected by these men. I know something better will come along then these men. There are just some very narrow views about women here and little compassion. Link to post Share on other sites
dreamergrl Posted January 18, 2010 Share Posted January 18, 2010 You have reason to lie because if you don't it makes you're entire gender look like shallow and pathetic human beings, sort of like Miss Jones. Then why are men telling you the same thing? Link to post Share on other sites
OpenGL Posted January 18, 2010 Share Posted January 18, 2010 Then why are men telling you the same thing? The men that are telling me the same things are men who are 6'5, in and out of jail every few months and have bodies covered with tattoos. Link to post Share on other sites
dreamergrl Posted January 18, 2010 Share Posted January 18, 2010 The men that are telling me the same things are men who are 6'5, in and out of jail every few months and have bodies covered with tattoos. You know all the men on LS personally? Link to post Share on other sites
shadowplay Posted January 18, 2010 Share Posted January 18, 2010 It's a fact that very short men (5'6"-) will have a harder time getting dates. It's also a fact that heavy women will have a harder time getting dates. Those are just some of the sad realities of life. Women discriminate based on physical features, and so do men. I guess I don't understand the point of this thread. Link to post Share on other sites
theBrokenMuse Posted January 18, 2010 Share Posted January 18, 2010 What unpleasant realities? I don't know exactly what this would mean in terms of you, yourself OpenGL, but I do know that instantaneous dismissal of others personal experiences as outright lies that are not obviously falsifications (IE. penthouse letter to the editor in which a school bus full of 18 year old cheerleaders breaks down in front of a a middle age man's house and demands he have sex with all of them) shows an inability or unwillingness to approach the subject with any objectivity which is usually indicative of a person having a serious emotional investment with a certain position. People don't emotionally invest into a position and entrench themselves into it for nothing, there is usually some reason behind it and when we look at this instance, we can see that the defensive stance being taken would abdicate any and all personal responsibility for failures one has in the dating game which seems to be the motive here. Link to post Share on other sites
OpenGL Posted January 18, 2010 Share Posted January 18, 2010 The point is fat women can lose weight. Short men can't become taller. Women can always make themselves attractive with hard work. Short men are f'ed for life. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Jersey Shortie Posted January 18, 2010 Author Share Posted January 18, 2010 It's a fact that very short men (5'6"-) will have a harder time getting dates. It's also a fact that heavy women will have a harder time getting dates. Those are just some of the sad realities of life. Women discriminate based on physical features, and so do men. I guess I don't understand the point of this thread. I clearly stated the point of the thread. That 5'6 men have the ablility to reject too. Link to post Share on other sites
mem11363 Posted January 18, 2010 Share Posted January 18, 2010 And yes OpenGL I know what your screen name refers to - we have a similar educational background. And as I have posted before you are 1" taller then me, we earned about the same amount age adjusted and I had a lot of fun dating after I removed the chip from my shoulder AND after I learned how to talk/listen to women. And now I have yet more fun being married to a great person. Oh and one more thing about my wife. Her initial checklist was to find a guy at least 3-4 inches taller then me. Thing is she ended up going for the package deal. Twenty years later she treats me like a king because of all the other stuff - the stuff that really matters over time. I have no tattoos and have never been in prison. You are in your own way. Plenty of women out there will date/love you if you stop this exercise in anger/self pity.... The men that are telling me the same things are men who are 6'5, in and out of jail every few months and have bodies covered with tattoos. Link to post Share on other sites
mem11363 Posted January 18, 2010 Share Posted January 18, 2010 So that their height disadvantage is removed for many of the women they date. And I am not suggesting that those women are gold diggers. Merely that they have a balanced view of what matters and money is part of it. Not all - I grasp that even at my peak earning point MissJones would not have even considered me and that is perfectly fine. I was ok focusing on the subset of women who were willing to give it at least one date and see where it went. And I am not rose colored about this. A couple taller women dated me for the nice dinner or two they got out of it but I could tell they couldn't get past the height thing and there was no third date. No matter what you earn - if you remain angry and act/think like a victim you will never be happy and most likely won't be able to start/sustain a marriage. The point is fat women can lose weight. Short men can't become taller. Women can always make themselves attractive with hard work. Short men are f'ed for life. Link to post Share on other sites
shadowplay Posted January 18, 2010 Share Posted January 18, 2010 I clearly stated the point of the thread. That 5'6 men have the ablility to reject too. Sorry, there are so many of these short guy threads that they all kind of blur together into one Napoleonic mess. Link to post Share on other sites
flc Posted January 18, 2010 Share Posted January 18, 2010 The point is fat women can lose weight. Short men can't become taller. Women can always make themselves attractive with hard work. Short men are f'ed for life. If you were correct then all short men would have been eliminated from the gene pool a long time ago and natural selection would only have left men over 6' Quit whining already your right you can't get taller so how is complaining going to help you? As I stated in the other thread I'm 5'7" guess what my current GF is also 5'7" and she is usually a good 2"-3" taller than me when we go out. Who cares, remember you spend more than 50% of your time sitting or laying down and your height is meaningless in that context. Link to post Share on other sites
worldcavedin Posted January 18, 2010 Share Posted January 18, 2010 im five foot five and ive knocked back girls and some girls have knocked me back, it never crossed my mind or have they said it was because of my height, they just prob never felt the chemistry and to be honest who cares you just try your luck with someone else. Link to post Share on other sites
worldcavedin Posted January 18, 2010 Share Posted January 18, 2010 (edited) and another thing, i might be thick here. if the average guy is 5.5-5.6 then how can they be classed as short if that is the average height, that does not make sense to me. they say the average dick is 6inches so if you have a 6 incher you have a small dick no comprende Edited January 18, 2010 by worldcavedin spelling error Link to post Share on other sites
flc Posted January 18, 2010 Share Posted January 18, 2010 and another thing, i might be thick here. if the average guy is 5.5-5.6 then how can they be classed as short if that is the average height, that does not make sense to me. they say the average dick is 6inches so if you have a 6 incher you have a small dick no comprende Actually depends on your ethinicity but for caucasian men the 50 percentile is actually 5'10". Link to post Share on other sites
AD1980 Posted January 18, 2010 Share Posted January 18, 2010 Actually depends on your ethinicity but for caucasian men the 50 percentile is actually 5'10". 5"9" actually Link to post Share on other sites
worldcavedin Posted January 18, 2010 Share Posted January 18, 2010 Actually depends on your ethinicity but for caucasian men the 50 percentile is actually 5'10". just going with the post heading and also depends on country as well, if your dutch the average is over six foot if your chinese/asian well im not sure exactly but i harbour a bet and it is lower than 5.6. The point is the op is correct, wee guys do also say no to girls Link to post Share on other sites
worldcavedin Posted January 18, 2010 Share Posted January 18, 2010 5"9" actually see what i am saying, it is differant everywhere. If in your own specific country the average is 5.9 then most of the girls would be just under in that country, if in another country the average is 6.2 then most prob the average girl would be just under that. know what i mean, it is irrelevant when it comes to love as love is blind allegedly Link to post Share on other sites
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