dreamergrl Posted January 20, 2010 Share Posted January 20, 2010 I didn't read any of this thread, why is it 22 pages? Because some of us can have a conversation about other things then how horrible women are and how much being short sucks. Back to the topic at hand... Link to post Share on other sites
OpenGL Posted January 20, 2010 Share Posted January 20, 2010 What are you conversating about? Link to post Share on other sites
sally4sara Posted January 20, 2010 Share Posted January 20, 2010 PS Congrats on your marriage in Vegas, (is that what you meant?) you had better not be wearing an engagement ring, wouldn't want people to think he paid you to love him. We BOTH wear rings and tokens of commitment and endearment that WE paid for. Weird you couldn't just guess that is what would be done and save the effort of the post..... Children never assume they might have to pay for anything either. I guess it would make more sense if a child asked me about the rings I was bought. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
meerkat stew Posted January 20, 2010 Share Posted January 20, 2010 I didn't read any of this thread, why is it 22 pages? It was about to die, so I stirred it up with some gender baiting and ended up getting "battle of the gold-diggers" O joy! The marvels of the interwebz :laugh: Link to post Share on other sites
OpenGL Posted January 20, 2010 Share Posted January 20, 2010 It was about to die, so I stirred it up with some gender baiting and ended up getting "battle of the gold-diggers" O joy! The marvels of the interwebz :laugh: Why invade other threads when you can make your own? I rather have my name next to a 50 page thread than some OP that doesn't deserve it. Link to post Share on other sites
sally4sara Posted January 20, 2010 Share Posted January 20, 2010 That wasn't the question. do you or do you not wear an engagement ring that this man has bought for you? Did you not read that we both wear things like this? I wear a ring and he got a watch. We now have bands. They were paid for out of OUR account that both our wages go into. Is it really so foreign to you that he might also get and engagement gift from me? No dear, I do not think you got the better end of the deal here. You write like you'd been stunted or denied some life skill training that would develope one into a useful adult. I hope you are veeerryy young. Link to post Share on other sites
1000 Posted January 20, 2010 Share Posted January 20, 2010 Johnny you are not getting it .... HE suggested to go for expensive dessert not her and he didnt want to pay and that is just cheap! doing the slow motion wallet thing is just cringey!!! Oh well he screwed it up now ... I wouldnt see him again either Yes...HE "suggested" it to see what her reaction would be (having already laid out a decent amount). Did she say something like "Oh no Tee hee I couldn't eat another bite, I wouldn't want to impose on you that way, let's just get a cup of coffee"? Nope. Conehead was "Yesssssss!!!! Now me gets to be Jabba the Hutt at the dessert tray!!!" It seems to me if they happened to be walking by a Rolls Royce dealership at the time, and this guy had jokingly suggested "Well shall I buy you a Silver Shadow?" conehead would probably have said "Yes thank you very much" and then would have been shocked, just shocked, when he declined to do so. Link to post Share on other sites
jw90063 Posted January 20, 2010 Share Posted January 20, 2010 It doesn't matter what anyone says. The world is brainwashed to think any person with a penis should always pay for the meal, ESPECIALLY on first date. If they don't, the guy is then accused of being a real d*ck and unworthy to date. Link to post Share on other sites
1000 Posted January 20, 2010 Share Posted January 20, 2010 Just to be clear, I don't regret paying the $45. Its not much in the grand scheme of things. Call it a test if you want. Every other guy in the past has passed this test with flying colors! This guy is the only one who failed. (excluding guys I had zero interest in and literally fought my way to pay). At least I don't feel bad about ignoring his calls/texts since I paid and do not owe him anything. If I pull my purse and the guy does not let me pay, then he is a GO! (this is 95% of the time) If I pull my purse and the guy acts like a wimp, he is a NO GO! (5% of the time) Simple test to weed out the losers. The above quotation can be found in Webster's Dictionary as the definition of "irony." Link to post Share on other sites
meerkat stew Posted January 20, 2010 Share Posted January 20, 2010 It doesn't matter what anyone says. The world is brainwashed to think any person with a penis should always pay for the meal, ESPECIALLY on first date. If they don't, the guy is then accused of being a real d*ck and unworthy to date. Will trade my verbosity for your succinctness, deal? Link to post Share on other sites
jw90063 Posted January 20, 2010 Share Posted January 20, 2010 Exactly! Just like the world is brainwashed to think that a girl that goes home with a guy she just met at a bar is not dating material and she is a skank. Yeah... I think that is a little different, but yeah, isn't always the case that she is a skank and not datable. I just think the man always having to pay is ridiculous. I know there are some women who always expect the man to pay. Do they not have a conscious? To me it seems wrong. Link to post Share on other sites
jw90063 Posted January 20, 2010 Share Posted January 20, 2010 I also wanted to add, that again it was the first date. That's where you make a first impression, and unfortunately it will look bad if the guy doesn't pay, so that's why its better he just does it. I don't think its necessarily right, but as I said everyone is brainwashed to think this. It just looks bad to most people if he doesn't. He has come across as cheap, and not much of a gentleman to the OP. I don't see the harm in going on more dates and find out more about him. I don't see how you can come to the conclusion he is very cheap based on one date. See how he reacts on other dates and get a better idea. Link to post Share on other sites
1000 Posted January 20, 2010 Share Posted January 20, 2010 Exactly! Just like the world is brainwashed to think that a girl that goes home with a guy she just met at a bar is not dating material and she is a skank. Sure there are some men who don't care either way but there are plenty more who do care very much and see it that way. Why risk being seen as THAT chick? I don't, and therefore if I were a guy I would not want to blow my chances at being with a woman I really want. Um....it's often the same women who are going home with guys they pick up at bars that are also insisting that "other guys"--i.e. the ones they are going out on "dates" with, pay for their expensive dinners. Only the guys who are picking them up for sex in bars (alphas) are different guys from the suckers/betas who are being conned into paying for the expensive dinners on the so-called "dates." You see in both instances the woman involved is engaging in arguably "skanky" behavior, but the type of skankiness varies depending on the context and who the guy happens to be. There is absolutely no doubt that women who think like conehead does have no problem with giving some hot alpha guy sloppy head in the parking lot of the local dive bar. They just like to pretend they're "not that kind of a girl." 1 Link to post Share on other sites
meerkat stew Posted January 20, 2010 Share Posted January 20, 2010 Oh no. I hear a click click clicking sound off in the distance, getting louder... dammit 1000, you're bound and determined to kill my favorite thread, aren't you. Link to post Share on other sites
jw90063 Posted January 20, 2010 Share Posted January 20, 2010 There is absolutely no doubt that women who think like conehead does have no problem with giving some hot alpha guy sloppy head in the parking lot of the local dive bar. They just like to pretend they're "not that kind of a girl." Have you seen any of her other threads? I highly doubt she would give a hot alpha guy head in the parking lot of a dive bar. If so, that would be one heck of a shocker. Link to post Share on other sites
1000 Posted January 20, 2010 Share Posted January 20, 2010 Oh no. I hear a click click clicking sound off in the distance, getting louder... dammit 1000, you're bound and determined to kill my favorite thread, aren't you. Click click clicking? Is that the sound of a furious beehive's worth of angry high heels coming my way? Sorry I do not mean to be a thread killer! I just find the entire thread LOL hilarious. OP went out with a guy who obviously figured out what she was all about and she doesn't realize it! He's trying to give her a chance to show him that she's not all about the benjamins and she's ignoring him. Link to post Share on other sites
dreamergrl Posted January 20, 2010 Share Posted January 20, 2010 I also wanted to add, that again it was the first date. That's where you make a first impression, and unfortunately it will look bad if the guy doesn't pay, so that's why its better he just does it. I don't think its necessarily right, but as I said everyone is brainwashed to think this. It just looks bad to most people if he doesn't. He has come across as cheap, and not much of a gentleman to the OP. I don't see the harm in going on more dates and find out more about him. I don't see how you can come to the conclusion he is very cheap based on one date. See how he reacts on other dates and get a better idea. I think this is one of the best posts in this thread. Link to post Share on other sites
dreamergrl Posted January 20, 2010 Share Posted January 20, 2010 My boyfriend drives a Porsche, I can't imagine him after our first date after he picked me up and then took us to dinner and at the end of the first date saying "uhmmm ok your half is....." Get the fck out of here!!!! :lmao::lmao: Fortunately for guys, not all woman are looking at the money status. Link to post Share on other sites
1000 Posted January 20, 2010 Share Posted January 20, 2010 Have you seen any of her other threads? I highly doubt she would give a hot alpha guy head in the parking lot of a dive bar. If so, that would be one heck of a shocker. I didn't say conehead did. I said "women who think like conehead" is expressing in this thread. I.e. the "entitlement" mentality which has been referred to by others. What conehead actually thinks and what she actually does is anyone's guess. By the way I don't doubt at all that a person who holds the views she and others have expressed in this thread would readily do that IF the guy appealed to her in that way, because this type of attitude reaks of "entitlement"--i.e. "it's all about me me me." Obviously THIS guy did NOT appeal to her in "that way," i.e. the sexual way, or else this thread would be entirely different. She would be instead probably telling us what a great guy he was, how liberated he was that he "allowed" her to share the bill and did not "expect" date sex in exchange for it, how that made her feel validated and respected, and whatever other reasoning might be useful to the situation... It's actually kind of pathetic in a way and sorrowful that her self-worth when out on a date is apparently determined by how much money she can get a guy to pay for her food/drinks/whatever. Maybe the "reason" that her date didn't want to pay the dessert/drinks bills is that he was FLABBERGASTED that conehead showed her "gratitude" by running up a bill for drinks/desserts that was MORE than the dinner itself? Maybe the poor guy (from his perspective) was effin' shocked that on a first date this gal decided it would be perfectly O.K. to run up an $80 tab and expect him to pay 100% for it? And, to top it off, she proved her lack of couth if you want to call it that by not even having the courtesy to return the guy's texts/phone call if only to indicate she was not interested in pursuing things with him. But the person you should be asking is not me but rather conehead herself. Someone else referenced other threads by conehead in which she apparently was playing sexual games such as initially "putting out" and then withholding it. Hey different strokes for different strokes. The bottom line is that the guy conehead dated was not "cheap," he was generous to her. As others have said, this was a first date, he would have been well within his rights to simply take her out for a coffee. Props to a guy who had enough self respect not to let a golddigger totally walk all over him. Link to post Share on other sites
jw90063 Posted January 20, 2010 Share Posted January 20, 2010 I think this is one of the best posts in this thread. Thanks I will also admit, even though I logically know a man shouldn't always be the one to pay, and shouldn't be judged because he doesn't on first date, IF a guy took me out and did the same, I would feel odd. I might even question if this indicates he could be cheap in future incidents. I know this is because most people see it has cheap and like he isn't being a gentleman. At same time, I also wouldn't have made a thread about it based on one date, and think about kicking him to the curb over it. Link to post Share on other sites
meerkat stew Posted January 20, 2010 Share Posted January 20, 2010 Click click clicking? Is that the sound of a furious beehive's worth of angry high heels coming my way? Sorry I do not mean to be a thread killer! I just find the entire thread LOL hilarious. OP went out with a guy who obviously figured out what she was all about and she doesn't realize it! He's trying to give her a chance to show him that she's not all about the benjamins and she's ignoring him. The click click is the sound of lots of manicured fingernails clicking on the "alert us" button, happens when things get too graphic ala what posters are doing out in the car with the alpha male Agree with you that the thread is hilarious. I want more gold-digging fights ala "My man took me to Versailles... and BOUGHT it for me!" "Well my man carpeted the whole house with Picassos strewn with rose petals! Top that!" Link to post Share on other sites
jw90063 Posted January 21, 2010 Share Posted January 21, 2010 There is absolutely no doubt that women who think like conehead does have no problem with giving some hot alpha guy sloppy head in the parking lot of the local dive bar. They just like to pretend they're "not that kind of a girl." On second thought, her name is cone"head". Link to post Share on other sites
1000 Posted January 21, 2010 Share Posted January 21, 2010 The click click is the sound of lots of manicured fingernails clicking on the "alert us" button, happens when things get too graphic ala what posters are doing out in the car with the alpha male Agree with you that the thread is hilarious. I want more gold-digging fights ala "My man took me to Versailles... and BOUGHT it for me!" "Well my man carpeted the whole house with Picassos strewn with rose petals! Top that!" You mean like THIS: Nah, can't relate I don't date betas. I date interesting, worldly with a certain level of life sophistication, men. These men have been around long enough to know that it is in poor taste to make a woman pay on a first date, or to "ask for half"! Just typing that out is making me laugh it is SO RIDICULOUS. My boyfriend drives a Porsche, I can't imagine him after our first date after he picked me up and then took us to dinner and at the end of the first date saying "uhmmm ok your half is....." Get the fck out of here!!!! :lmao::lmao: LOL at "my boyfriend drives a Porsche." I wonder how the view from a Porsche is with your head in the driver's lap? Link to post Share on other sites
Lishy Posted January 21, 2010 Share Posted January 21, 2010 Men should pay for a first date ..... The End! Link to post Share on other sites
BUENG1 Posted January 21, 2010 Share Posted January 21, 2010 Cat fight!! Link to post Share on other sites
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