dreamer0123 Posted January 20, 2010 Share Posted January 20, 2010 Hi Everyone, Sorry if this post is a bit long but I could really use some advice.... My ex and I were together for 3 years. We had a solid relationship and most of our friends thought we would end up married. About 3 months ago- things fell apart and we ended up breaking up... things were not progressing from his end and I felt like our cultural differences played a huge part in the breakup. Anyways- we broke up. Since then he's been initiating contact once every few weeks. The first time he we spoke, he asked me if we could meet up for coffee but I rejected the idea since I wasn't ready at all... The second time I called him asking if we could meet up for closure but then I got sick and we didn't end up meeting up. Finally he called me a couple of days ago and wants to meet up tomorrow. When we spoke, he said he wanted to try and remain friends but I told him that so much has changed since we last saw each other that it's just hard for me right now and I was having trouble understanding what exactly he wanted. He "claims" that we will always be friends even if we end up seeing other people because these are just adjustments we will have to get used to.. So anyways I'm debating as to whether or not to see him.. a big part of me does because I want that closure but I'm still so mad and hurt by everything because I did care for him a lot... I guess the silver lining in all this is that I'm not as upset as I was 3 months ago even though I just spoke to him.. So- do I meet him? Does he still have feelings for me or is he really looking to be friends? Any advice would help! Thanks Link to post Share on other sites
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