OpenGL Posted January 24, 2010 Share Posted January 24, 2010 Damn, I'm docked points for being short, and now because I'm not black. If I wasn't in the Marines, I wouldn't have anything going for me. I'm short (5'7), black, and I'm college educated. I have 3 strikes against me. I'm out Link to post Share on other sites
allina Posted January 24, 2010 Share Posted January 24, 2010 I'm short (5'7), black, and I'm college educated. I have 3 strikes against me. I'm out Are you trying to say that being college educated is a negative? I personally would never date a man that didn't have at least a BA/BS Link to post Share on other sites
OpenGL Posted January 24, 2010 Share Posted January 24, 2010 Are you trying to say that being college educated is a negative? In today's society, yes it is. I personally would never date a man that didn't have at least a BA/BS You are the exception. Link to post Share on other sites
sagetalk Posted January 24, 2010 Share Posted January 24, 2010 Go ahead...quote those words. "After dating him I don't find many white men attractive anymore. I have a definite preference to black men now. I think it is because they are very laid back, enjoy themselves, are confident, cool and know how to have a good time. The black guys I know treat their women well too." Link to post Share on other sites
stillafool Posted January 24, 2010 Share Posted January 24, 2010 Quote: Ladies, I apologize on behalf of all cute, smart, black men. I felt like I was being personally singled-out and scolded as I read your descriptions. It's very difficult, as silly as it sounds. I would like to be in a committed relationship, but it's hard to figure it all out when you got a couple girls really easily, then you meet someone you really like, but they may not give it up as easily as someone else did, so you continue with one of the original girls until the girl you like finally gives it up. Perhaps by that time, you might be annoyed or over your initial interest in the girl you thought really had potential, so you continue to see other people or new people. That is how my life is and I wish it had more order. I don't want to hurt people but it is inevitable sometimes. That's why I come to this forum, to try and figure out how to "date" properly. When I am in a relationship though, I am very loyal, and all the the charm and affection, that is used to deceive other women, is genuine. To Citygal, I don't think anyone will argue with you. I grew up in a wealthy, predominantly white area and white people(particularly in the south), are often thrown off by a young, articulate(often times moreso than them), black man and don't know how to react. I think this is, at least, partially a reason for why I've been with many more white women than any other race, many times their first black guy. I also get off on the fact that white men seem to hate it, whether inwardly or outwardly.[/QUOTE] That's rude as he]]!!!! How do you feel about black women who consider you a weaker black man because you date white women? Link to post Share on other sites
ella23 Posted January 24, 2010 Share Posted January 24, 2010 I'm short (5'7), black, and I'm college educated. I have 3 strikes against me. I'm out Being college educated is a plus. Link to post Share on other sites
Payden Posted January 25, 2010 Share Posted January 25, 2010 Are you trying to say that being college educated is a negative? I personally would never date a man that didn't have at least a BA/BS Not even a hard working blue collar guy could get your fancy?... Some of us guys that make money via hard, brute force still exist. For that, I am not saying anything about your avatar..... and it was something good. Link to post Share on other sites
Devil Dog Posted January 25, 2010 Share Posted January 25, 2010 I'm short (5'7), black, and I'm college educated. I have 3 strikes against me. I'm out I'm shorter than you (5'5"), I'm white, and if this thread is any indication, being white is now out, and I'm not college educated. How is being black a strike? Or college educated? I'll give you your height, even though I'd kill to be even that much taller. Link to post Share on other sites
Clep Posted January 25, 2010 Share Posted January 25, 2010 "After dating him I don't find many white men attractive anymore. I have a definite preference to black men now. I think it is because they are very laid back, enjoy themselves, are confident, cool and know how to have a good time. The black guys I know treat their women well too." And how is that putting any white man down or saying negative things about them? Doesn't matter really, your perceptions don't dictate my reality. Link to post Share on other sites
sagetalk Posted January 25, 2010 Share Posted January 25, 2010 And how is that putting any white man down or saying negative things about them? Doesn't matter really, your perceptions don't dictate my reality. Your reality is fantasy. Saying you only date black guys because they are cool, treat women great, and confident means you think that white guys aren't these things. What white guy would see that as a put down, they must be crazy ? Maybe you really are that clueless and not heartless, cruel, and evil. I'll give you the benefit of the doubt. I'm just that nice of a guy . Link to post Share on other sites
Johnny M Posted January 25, 2010 Share Posted January 25, 2010 Are you trying to say that being college educated is a negative? I personally would never date a man that didn't have at least a BA/BS I think what he's saying is that the women who are attracted to black men are attracted to a particular type of black man....namely, the type that is promoted as the definition of 'cool' by movies and MTV - a loud, obnoxious imbecil who can't speak proper English but throws money around like hie's got a printing press at home. A college-educated computer programmer does not exactly fit the bill. Link to post Share on other sites
Devil Dog Posted January 25, 2010 Share Posted January 25, 2010 And how is that putting any white man down or saying negative things about them? Doesn't matter really, your perceptions don't dictate my reality. If you don't believe that puts down white men in any way, you head is so far up your ass... Link to post Share on other sites
Devil Dog Posted January 25, 2010 Share Posted January 25, 2010 She said she wouldn't date you unless you had the college degree. She never said she woudn't f*ck you. There's a difference, you know. Generally speaking, that attitude comes with a air of superiority. People like that often think guys like me deserve to be in the same room with them. It's pretty pathetic. Link to post Share on other sites
Johnny M Posted January 25, 2010 Share Posted January 25, 2010 LOL, she thinks she's being "cool" by saying she'll only date black guys, as if there's some sort of cache to it. What she really means is that she'll only date black guys, until she doesn't. She probably just hasn't met a white guy who makes enough money for her to overcome her racism yet. No self-respecting white guy would have anything to do with a woman like her anyway, so no big loss. The only sad thing about this whole situation is that she will most likely end up marrying some oblivious white guy to whom she conveniently forgets to mention this one black boyfriend that she used to have... Link to post Share on other sites
Clep Posted January 25, 2010 Share Posted January 25, 2010 Your reality is fantasy. Saying you only date black guys because they are cool, treat women great, and confident means you think that white guys aren't these things. What white guy would see that as a put down, they must be crazy ? Maybe you really are that clueless and not heartless, cruel, and evil. I'll give you the benefit of the doubt. I'm just that nice of a guy . In my first post I did say I don't find many white men attractive anymore. That does not suggest in any way that I only date black men. To rule out dating someone based upon the color of their skin would be racist I think. I said have a preference to black men now but if a white guy was nice and there was chemistry I would date him too, or whatever race. I find though that when I am out I notice black men before white men now. I think there are many white guys that have the qualities I have mentioned but I find that I notice it much more with black men. This thread however is comparing black men to white so that is what I responded to. And to try to undermind my intelligence by suggesting I am clueless is ridiculous. Cruel and evil. That is a bit dramatic. Link to post Share on other sites
Clep Posted January 25, 2010 Share Posted January 25, 2010 Generally speaking, that attitude comes with a air of superiority. People like that often think guys like me deserve to be in the same room with them. It's pretty pathetic. I know a woman that will only date a man with a degree. She comes off as a person with that air of superiority. She get's all cozy with a guy and then when she finds out they don't have a degree she goes on to the next. I am not sure of why a guy with a degree would be so much better than one without. Aren't we all equal on this earth? Link to post Share on other sites
Devil Dog Posted January 25, 2010 Share Posted January 25, 2010 In my first post I did say I don't find many white men attractive anymore. That does not suggest in any way that I only date black men. To rule out dating someone based upon the color of their skin would be racist I think. I said have a preference to black men now but if a white guy was nice and there was chemistry I would date him too, or whatever race. I find though that when I am out I notice black men before white men now. I think there are many white guys that have the qualities I have mentioned but I find that I notice it much more with black men. This thread however is comparing black men to white so that is what I responded to. Of course. You didn't insinuate anything from your post, run along now. Link to post Share on other sites
Chicago_Guy Posted January 25, 2010 Share Posted January 25, 2010 No self-respecting white guy would have anything to do with a woman like her anyway, so no big loss. The only sad thing about this whole situation is that she will most likely end up marrying some oblivious white guy to whom she conveniently forgets to mention this one black boyfriend that she used to have... She might date a white guy at some point in the future and may casually mention whom she dated in the past and will be shocked when the guy breaks off all contact with her. Link to post Share on other sites
Clep Posted January 25, 2010 Share Posted January 25, 2010 LOL, she thinks she's being "cool" by saying she'll only date black guys, as if there's some sort of cache to it. What she really means is that she'll only date black guys, until she doesn't. She probably just hasn't met a white guy who makes enough money for her to overcome her racism yet. It would be a good idea to go to the thread about the guy paying first to see my views on woman and men regarding money. White or black, money or not....the person is what matters. I also said in another thread that I never said I only date black men. Racism is for the uneducated which I see all the time dating a black man. Until I dated him all the men I dated were mostly white and I thought racism was dead...I learned quickly. Link to post Share on other sites
SOLACEMENT Posted January 25, 2010 Share Posted January 25, 2010 Aren't we all equal on this earth? Nope... you must be an American to think that Hint the sarcasm text people...gosh Link to post Share on other sites
Devil Dog Posted January 25, 2010 Share Posted January 25, 2010 I know a woman that will only date a man with a degree. She comes off as a person with that air of superiority. She get's all cozy with a guy and then when she finds out they don't have a degree she goes on to the next. I am not sure of why a guy with a degree would be so much better than one without. Aren't we all equal on this earth? I have a friend who's girlfriend at times resents him because he didn't go to college. He still doesn't know what he wants to do, and doesn't want to blow tons of money on college. Ludicrous isn't it? Link to post Share on other sites
Clep Posted January 25, 2010 Share Posted January 25, 2010 She might date a white guy at some point in the future and may casually mention whom she dated in the past and will be shocked when the guy breaks off all contact with her. Why would he do that...because he is racist. I don't choose people in my life that are racist. Link to post Share on other sites
Woggle Posted January 25, 2010 Share Posted January 25, 2010 I couldn't care less who dates who but I have noticed that white women who like black men tend to like a stereotype. I mentioned my friend who is a computer nerd and he is not the type of black man these women are looking for. He even had a white woman tell him he doesn't act black enough which is downright insulting. For many of them it is a mystery safari that they ditch when they grow out of it. My advice to black men is have your fun but don't expect any of these white women to actually be good longterm partners. They will turn on you on a 2nd when it hits the fan. Just ask Kobe Bryant about that who was falsely accused probably her BF or father found out. I do think that black men who come from certain neighborhoods tend to have a certain demeanor and mentality because when you are trying to survive day to day in the hood there is no time to become PC or worry about the trivial crap that white yuppies concern themselves with. If you notice white people from these enviroments are the same way and black men and women who grow up privileged act just like the white yuppies. The ironic thing is that there are some black women who are getting into dating white men because according to them we treat women better. I was on a date with one and it was a complete turnoff because to me she was trashing her father and every male family member she has. If she thought black men had issues with women I don't know what she would have done with me. Link to post Share on other sites
Chicago_Guy Posted January 25, 2010 Share Posted January 25, 2010 Why would he do that...because he is racist. I don't choose people in my life that are racist. How do you know that the guy you are dating isn't racist? Or do you simply assume that he isn't racist solely because he's dating you? Some of the most prejudiced people I have ever met are black. U.S. President Barack Obama's pastor/spiritual adviser, for example, is a virulent racist and yet Obama attended his sermons for 20+ years and even had the guy write the forward to his autobiography. Link to post Share on other sites
allina Posted January 25, 2010 Share Posted January 25, 2010 Not even a hard working blue collar guy could get your fancy?... Some of us guys that make money via hard, brute force still exist. For that, I am not saying anything about your avatar..... and it was something good. You're right, maybe I spoke too soon. I'm sure that a smart, ambitious, blue collar guy could catch my attention. I guess I just don't know any blue collar guys like this. And what were you gonna say about my avatar E? I think what he's saying is that the women who are attracted to black men are attracted to a particular type of black man....namely, the type that is promoted as the definition of 'cool' by movies and MTV - a loud, obnoxious imbecil who can't speak proper English but throws money around like hie's got a printing press at home. A college-educated computer programmer does not exactly fit the bill. I have dated mostly white and Asian men but I'd be interested in the black computer programmer Link to post Share on other sites
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