Why do woman prefer man with a big ???!!!?

[HeavenOrHell]

That's good to know

 

 

 

Breast size does not matter to me one bit. It would be nice if they had it, but honestly I dont care. My ex that I loved the heck out was flat as a table. The girl I am dating now is huge. I think they are D's. Either way...I am really interested in the girl herself and not her boobs.

[DenverBachelor]

 

Boy, that seems like such a simple solution. Why didn't I think of that Before.

 

You're just not going to gloss over an insecurity overnight, though. I would recommend if you are really concerned about it that you make an appointment with a doctor (urologist) and look into methods of extending your length.

 

Good luck and keep hanging.

[Ilovecake]

I'm starting to see that no matter what anyone here says or does Tatoc will continue to feel sorry for himself. I'm not sure if you started this thread looking to sympathy, revenge on women, just a vehicle to talk about your penis, but it's obvious that advice is not what you are looking for.

[DenverBachelor]

You can't really compare breast size to penis size. Usually you're not inserting your breast into anything more than a hand or a mouth.

 

Like throwing a hot dog down a hallway.

[mickleb]

You're just not going to gloss over an insecurity overnight, though. I would recommend if you are really concerned about it that you make an appointment with a doctor (urologist) and look into methods of extending your length.

 

Good luck and keep hanging.

 

From this lady's perspective this isn't necessary, although it is correct that insecurities that affect us to this extent, often have such a powerful impact on our psyches that we need to keep check of them daily. Sometimes, for years on end.

 

I'm starting to see that no matter what anyone here says or does Tatoc will continue to feel sorry for himself. I'm not sure if you started this thread looking to sympathy, revenge on women, just a vehicle to talk about your penis, but it's obvious that advice is not what you are looking for.

 

I don't think this is fair ILC. I think the post below shows that Tatoc is very grateful for the advice he's received. Although, I will admit he appeared to misread the post from norajane, which I personally, found delightful.

 

I have always considered myself a person with a lot of confidence, but after reading some of the sincere post on here, I realize that although I may be confident in every aspect of life, when it comes to being with a woman I am lacking confidence. I have also learned that the reason I'm lacking confidence is because I'm too worried about what the woman might think of my penis size.

 

So the conclusion is. (Please let me know if I'm wrong) As long as I give every effort to satisfy her, I should not be concerned with what she thinks about my penis size. (Although that really hurts) I should just dump her and find me another one, until I find one that is happy with what I have to offer.

 

I want to thank everybody that took the time to respond. Especially those that gave constructive advice.

 

 

 

Boy, that seems like such a simple solution. Why didn't I think of that Before.

 

In a nutshell, Tatoc, yes but it's worth taking a look inwards, also, to try to figure out why you reacted in a totally different way to that of the guy norajane dated, to this problem.

 

Best of luck with everything and well done for addressing this issue so openly. It can't have been easy.

 

x

[Satisfaction]

All the guys they have slept with before have been really crap so they are going for bigger because if they can't get an orgasm at least they can feel like they have actually had sex.

[Tatoc]

I'm starting to see that no matter what anyone here says or does Tatoc will continue to feel sorry for himself. I'm not sure if you started this thread looking to sympathy, revenge on women, just a vehicle to talk about your penis, but it's obvious that advice is not what you are looking for.

 

I don't like to insult people. So I won't comment on what you just wrote. All I will say is that you are wrong. I hate to talk about this issue, and that is why I chose to talk about with strangers on the internet. To my surprise I have gotten some very good advice.

[WiseOne1]

As with everything I post, I only tell the truth and nothing but the truth. So here we go....

A lot of women are ignorant, that’s right they wish for men with bigger penis's, but they feel wrong and like men are pigs when they meet a man that criticizes them having "small breast" or even "small buttocks" basically meaning that the man would rather them to have bigger parts.

 

I also know women who are kind of on the "slut" side, and can have a fist in them, I REALLY mean like a full fist, but they say that they want a guy with a big penis.....I’m like what penis is big enough to cause any friction to a vagina that can take a FIST?? How I know all of this?? "I have a lot of female friends"

 

Women are never the fault for bad sex, at lest in there mind! Even though they made have gotten around a lot in there day, they still fault the man!

All I can say is try to find a women who is mature enough to know that there are other important things in the relationship than PENIS SIZE.

[Satisfaction]

As with everything I post, I only tell the truth and nothing but the truth. So here we go....

A lot of women are ignorant, that’s right they wish for men with bigger penis's, but they feel wrong and like men are pigs when they meet a man that criticizes them having "small breast" or even "small buttocks" basically meaning that the man would rather them to have bigger parts.

 

I also know women who are kind of on the "slut" side, and can have a fist in them, I REALLY mean like a full fist, but they say that they want a guy with a big penis.....I’m like what penis is big enough to cause any friction to a vagina that can take a FIST?? How I know all of this?? "I have a lot of female friends"

 

Women are never the fault for bad sex, at lest in there mind! Even though they made have gotten around a lot in there day, they still fault the man!

All I can say is try to find a women who is mature enough to know that there are other important things in the relationship than PENIS SIZE.

 

I'm not sure what you are talking about here, or how you came by sluts=fisting, I always thought that had to do more with self worth than liking sex.

I'm going to be really simplistic here and break sex down to having an orgasm, just for illustration purposes.

if you are having sex with a man and he has an orgasm and the woman doesn't is that considered good sex? Because if a woman has to give herself an orgasm as well as give the man an orgasm, do you think it was worth her having sex with that man in the first place?

[sedgwick]

I also know women who are kind of on the "slut" side, and can have a fist in them, I REALLY mean like a full fist, but they say that they want a guy with a big penis.....I’m like what penis is big enough to cause any friction to a vagina that can take a FIST?? How I know all of this?? "I have a lot of female friends"

 

I don't know whether to laugh or scream. So you have a "lot of female friends," but none of them have told you that vaginas are elastic? Have you ever SEEN a vagina? There's this little thing called childbirth you should know about. See, when a woman passes a baby through her vagina, the vagina STRETCHES to make room for the baby to come out. But -- miraculously! -- the ol' birth canal does not remain the size of a baby's head.

 

Let's say you take a rubber band. You stretch it so you can put your fist through it. Then you take your fist out. Does the rubber band stay the size of your fist, or does it go back to the size it was before? Say it with me: STRETCHY. As the rubber band expands and contracts, so does the vagina.

 

So, because the rubber band allowed you to put your fist through it, is the rubber band a "slut?" In case you haven't heard, that's a pejorative term.

[Chitowngirl]

I doubt you're really THAT small. My first love had the smallest penis I've ever seen in person, similar to the size of my pinky finger, and he also had erectile disfunction. If they really were into you, your penis size wouldn't matter.

 

 

All my life I have had resentment towards woman because of the way they have treated me. I'm in my 40's have had 3 girlfriends in all those years. With the first one I lasted 2 months. Everything was great until she insisted on us having sex. She told me that she really enjoyed that moment. But no matter how hard I tried she would not see me again. And never gave me an explanation.

 

It took me another 8 years before I could pick up the courage to ask out another lady. We dated for 3 weeks. During that time I avoided any talk about sex, because I did not want this relationship to end like the first one did. But she was persistent. I went along with it because she beginning to distance herself from me. That night just like with my first girlfriend, she said that it was good. Although she did continue to go out with me for a couple more weeks, I knew that she had changed with me, because she would not be as talkative, wanted to end the dates almost right away, among other things. This brought back memory of my first relationship, so I asked her if the reason she is being indifferent with me is because she was not happy with what I had to offer in the intimate department. She said something like that. We never called each other again.

 

I promised myself that I would never get involved romantically again. And I was successful until a few months ago, when I female coworker started coming on to me. I resisted for awhile, but then I started dated her. We went out for 5 months. Then one day she asked me why I never made any sexual passes. At this time I decided to tell her the truth. I told her that I was not well endowed. She laughed and said not to be silly. Since we were in my house I decided to show her. She just stared and said I understand.

At least unlike the first two, she was honest enough to tell me that she didn’t want to continue our relationship.

 

Why do woman have to be so cruel? I’m a compassionate person; I’m not the best looking man. But then I’m also not the ugliest. I won’t mention the size of my manhood because I don’t think it is politically correct to do so on this site. But I believe of have enough to make an understanding woman. The problem is, does this woman exist? And if she does, how do I find her without humiliating myself anymore?