Catapult Posted February 11, 2010 Share Posted February 11, 2010 Oxford, Have you and the MM discussed plans for the future? You are separated and divorcing, what about him? Are you okay with the fact that you are dismantling a marriage to a "good guy" because you found happiness with a man in another country who in all likelihood, will never leave his wife? How do you feel about that? How would you feel about the MM having another OW? Don't divorce for the MM, divorce for yourself. Make sure you'll have no regrets regardless of MM. I'm no prophet, but I'd bet good money that the MM will never divorce. Many, many MW do exactly what you're doing only to waste years waiting for the MM to leave. Link to post Share on other sites
LucreziaBorgia Posted February 11, 2010 Share Posted February 11, 2010 I'd have to agree with a previous post about the wife knowing or not. If she doesn't know, then all bets are off until she does. A lot can change when everything is out in the open. If she does know (and I suspect that she probably knows about his AFF extra curricular activities and has long been 'looking the other way'), then perhaps there is a way for you to have a parallel sort of thing with him. Link to post Share on other sites
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