Billie The Puppet Posted September 27, 2010 Share Posted September 27, 2010 (edited) Were issues that caused the first break up discussed when you got back together? See I had the same sort of thing but we just flew back into the relationship and it lasted 1 month. Yet I want her back too. (She did the break thing and then the break up both times) I really wish we discussed the issues and took it slower the second time. I think there is an exponential difficulty with "chances" by that I mean each chance gets harder to obtain. Do NC for you to heal and move on not as a ploy to win her back. Edited September 27, 2010 by Billie The Puppet Link to post Share on other sites
Author jtincubus Posted September 28, 2010 Author Share Posted September 28, 2010 I don't remember us ever stitting down and talking about our problems now that i think about it. I keep trying to remind myself to accept it and i can find another one that i'll love but i for some reason want to talk to her now. I'm the one that started this NC so i'll probably be the one that has to break it no? I just don't know if i should keep the NC or try talking to her as a friend and see what happens. I really want to give her the space but i don't want her to be completely over me. At times i'm so confident then the total opposite that she's the one that got away and i should do everything to win her back for sure. Link to post Share on other sites
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