EricaH329 Posted January 27, 2010 Share Posted January 27, 2010 I'm trying to formulate a coherent & sound advice for Erica... Haha, I know it's a task. I'm in a pretty messed up situation. Wouldn't it be great if you could just see into the future?! Ugh... For the next hour and a half i'm going to sit here and think about the situation i'm in. And then after that i'm going to go out and get stupid drunk and have a great time with my friends. This hour and a half is going to seem like eternity! Link to post Share on other sites
ella23 Posted January 27, 2010 Share Posted January 27, 2010 I know I am an amazing guy. Everything I am... my mind, my body, my soul, my heart I give willingly... to she who deserves it of whom, I deserve her. One day.... My heart will not be bound by one who is as foolish as my most recent ex. And yours shall not either... free yourself from this contempt of agonizing torment... these wretched metaphysical chains of despair that keep us bound to the past can no longer encumber our hearts. Avert your eyes, do not. Be willing to see the person before you... do not look over your shoulder. Even if they come back... that's exactly what they are... back. Your back... behind you. Do you really want to set yourself back to those days of heart wrenching pain? The sadness, the emotion that dictated your every word... your every move. Or do you look forward to the next person who will brighten up your life. ...cut your losses and leave them behind you. You tread forward. They will remain in the past... and when they realize their 'forward' was with you... you will be gone and they will soon come to realize what you have already done.... It was their loss. If it means anything to you now, dumpee, I you. Great post again. Yep, I know I have to get over the nasty stuff that my ex said, because I am with a great guy now and I don't want to mess this up. I wish I'd never dated my ex. Link to post Share on other sites
Author bananaboat11 Posted January 27, 2010 Author Share Posted January 27, 2010 WOW bananaboat!! You've not only bounced back you've come roaring back with profound insight!!! This sounds like a modern rendition of Shakspeare! You really rock!! I hope... But thank you. Haha, I know it's a task. I'm in a pretty messed up situation. Wouldn't it be great if you could just see into the future?! Ugh... For the next hour and a half i'm going to sit here and think about the situation i'm in. And then after that i'm going to go out and get stupid drunk and have a great time with my friends. This hour and a half is going to seem like eternity! Sweetie, all you need to do is be happy. You are beautiful. Inside & out. I see it. I see you. Stupid drunk sounds like fun & all... but why not get happy drunk with your friends and enjoy yourself. Blacking out ends up with regrets... (usually LOL... speaking from experience) You deserve better than that. Have fun tonight, regardless. Great post again. Yep, I know I have to get over the nasty stuff that my ex said, because I am with a great guy now and I don't want to mess this up. I wish I'd never dated my ex. Sometimes 'they' the exes will learn.. sometimes not. All we can realize is how truly amazing we are. We have beautiful people in their lives. they're there for a reason. I'll probably never get over the fact I was emotionally used, abused, demoralized, demeaned, berated, etc.. and physically used. And she'll never be back. she'll never apologize. she'll go on living her life as if she did no wrong. she is selfish... all the good things I did for her when she NEEDED me... ugh Link to post Share on other sites
EricaH329 Posted January 27, 2010 Share Posted January 27, 2010 Sweetie, all you need to do is be happy. You are beautiful. Inside & out. I see it. I see you. Stupid drunk sounds like fun & all... but why not get happy drunk with your friends and enjoy yourself. Blacking out ends up with regrets... (usually LOL... speaking from experience) You deserve better than that. Have fun tonight, regardless. Thank you Rob!! You are such a sweetheart ! I'm going to have tonnns of fun with girls that love to be alive (don't you just love hanging out with people like that!?). Perfect timing too. I'll be shutting my phone off and enjoying great company! Sometimes 'they' the exes will learn.. sometimes not. All we can realize is how truly amazing we are. We have beautiful people in their lives. they're there for a reason. I'll probably never get over the fact I was emotionally used, abused, demoralized, demeaned, berated, etc.. and physically used. And she'll never be back. she'll never apologize. she'll go on living her life as if she did no wrong. she is selfish... all the good things I did for her when she NEEDED me... ugh Even the worst of people get a glimpse of common sense. And when your ex does, she'll realize what she did to you and how it has effected you. That's the moment that she'll be able to decide what kind of person she wants to be. Link to post Share on other sites
Author bananaboat11 Posted January 27, 2010 Author Share Posted January 27, 2010 Thank you Rob!! You are such a sweetheart ! I'm going to have tonnns of fun with girls that love to be alive (don't you just love hanging out with people like that!?). Perfect timing too. I'll be shutting my phone off and enjoying great company! Even the worst of people get a glimpse of common sense. And when your ex does, she'll realize what she did to you and how it has effected you. That's the moment that she'll be able to decide what kind of person she wants to be. First, without sounding creepy, i'll shoot you my cell # on FB if you ever want to txt me and talk. Verizon preferable... I only have1500 texts per month and I'm running out FAST... heh... Second... no, she won't. She won't realize. She won't feel apologetic. She won't recognize. She will never be. And I will never hear from her. I must learn to forget indefinitely as to not let it affect the next woman who I am lucky enough to have in my life and she, of me. Third... HAVE FUN!!!! Link to post Share on other sites
USMCHokie Posted January 27, 2010 Share Posted January 27, 2010 First, without sounding creepy, i'll shoot you my cell # on FB if you ever want to txt me and talk. Verizon preferable... I only have1500 texts per month and I'm running out FAST... heh... Second... no, she won't. She won't realize. She won't feel apologetic. She won't recognize. She will never be. And I will never hear from her. I must learn to forget indefinitely as to not let it affect the next woman who I am lucky enough to have in my life and she, of me. Third... HAVE FUN!!!! But the important thing that you've recognized is that whether she does or not, it is irrelevant to your life. She is now irrelevant to your life. Don't stress out about whether she'll come around. Even if she does, she will always be that person...people ultimately don't change from who they really are... And Erica, have fun tonight! Link to post Share on other sites
EricaH329 Posted January 27, 2010 Share Posted January 27, 2010 Thanks Rob and Kelvin!! You will hear all about my crazy night tomorrow. Crossing my fingers that I don't do anything stupid! Link to post Share on other sites
bassman57 Posted January 28, 2010 Share Posted January 28, 2010 i just started here and it is refreshing to hear this. Hopefully one day soon I will be where you are Link to post Share on other sites
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