sunflower745 Posted January 29, 2010 Share Posted January 29, 2010 Hi! I'll try to make it short. Well my boyfriend of over one year made a facebook last July...today I barely found him and saw that he had all his family and girl co-workers or something. Did he have me on there? No!!! When I asked him about it he said he didn't have it for that long and rarely logged in. He said he didn't think I had one (even though I think I recall telling him that I did have one some time ago) so that's why he didn't look for me. I can't believe he wouldn't even bother looking me up!!!! Then I talked to his sis in law cuz all his family had his ex girlfriend as a friend and she said that it was just to be nosy but that her and MY boyfriend are friends!!! I felt so angry because back in July he got super pissed off when he found out I was still talking to my ex!! Then I asked him and he said he didn't talk to his ex and had nothing to hide! I acted on impulse and told him I was sooo glad I was still talking to my ex and gave him back his phone and told him i couldn't trust him and didn't want to be with him anymore....then later I sent him a message on my old phone telling him how I felt and he didn't respond...can someone please give me advice??? I don't even feel nothing for my ex but why was he so secretive? Link to post Share on other sites
FieryDream Posted January 30, 2010 Share Posted January 30, 2010 If it was me I wouldn't bother with him, as he sounds like he has rules for u, and different rules for himself. But maybe just have a chat and see whats going on with him, sometimes people are secretive when their scared and nerved. If he dosen't say anything then he might have something to hide....though he also very likely might not Link to post Share on other sites
2sunny Posted January 30, 2010 Share Posted January 30, 2010 sounds like you did the right thing by breaking up. if he had nothing to hide - he wouldn't be hiding this. he knew you were there - he didn't want you to know he was on fb. what did you text him afterwards... you never said. either way, you made the right decision. stick to it. Link to post Share on other sites
Author sunflower745 Posted January 30, 2010 Author Share Posted January 30, 2010 well just texted him how he made me feel at times. just left out and he knows i hate that. well after, this argument turned all around on me for being such a moron and saying i still talked to my ex. Link to post Share on other sites
sally4sara Posted January 30, 2010 Share Posted January 30, 2010 When you make a facebook profile, it goes through your email contacts and if any of them are on facebook - it will show you links to their profiles so you can send friend requests. His line about not knowing if you had a facebook profile is a flat out lie unless neither of you ever send each other an email. Link to post Share on other sites
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