moimeme Posted December 31, 2003 Share Posted December 31, 2003 A year ago today, I waved him off to what was to be a six-month job away. He was to 'heal' and we were to work at reconstructing the relationship on his return. I was determined to not be a quitter and to try every possible thing before throwing in the towel. It had been pretty wretched for a lot of the time, but surely there had to be something salvageable. Finally, I had to face the fact that I had, once again, invested more time than I should have in a lost cause. It crashed two months later and relief followed not long after. Last Jan 1, I thought there'd be a great new beginning in '03. Turned out not so much that way. I think this every Jan 1 - some have played out and some not. Nonetheless, being soundly afflicted with 'triumph-of-hope-over-experience-itis', I am cheerful and excited about the prospect of '04 and what it may bring. I've done my regroup/re-evaluate thing and it's time to embark on Life Plan #11465A LOL. To everyone who's had a rough go of it, I hope that you, too, face the coming year with anticipation. When I raise my glass at 'my' midnight (last stop on this continent for the New Year; most of you will be long abed), I'll wish peace, love, and many blessings for you all while I'm wishing the same for my 3D pals. best to all Merry Link to post Share on other sites
lostforwords Posted December 31, 2003 Share Posted December 31, 2003 To everyone who's had a rough go of it, I hope that you, too, face the coming year with anticipation. When I raise my glass at 'my' midnight (last stop on this continent for the New Year; most of you will be long abed), I'll wish peace, love, and many blessings for you all while I'm wishing the same for my 3D pals. moimeme.... my sentiments exactly..... what better way to start off 2004 than to raise a drink to your 3d friends at midnight and wishing them much success and happiness!!! i will be sure to do the same for everyone here as much as im sure ive pissed people off..... lol.... however i only look forward to posting here in the new year about my success stories and look forward to hearing everyone elses success's!!!! (god how many success can say?) LS has brought forth some good friends and people and look forward to talking with everyone.......... good luck to you in 2004 moimeme!!! Link to post Share on other sites
Caddy Posted December 31, 2003 Share Posted December 31, 2003 I'm wishing everyone an awesome year for 2004. May you have much love, happiness, peace, fatty foods, liquor, mental and physical health better than mine! And no pissy posts from Lostforwords! LMAO Link to post Share on other sites
midlifecrisis Posted December 31, 2003 Share Posted December 31, 2003 Moimeme Thanks so much for for being here and for being our virtual confidant. I'm still new to LS, but I have benefitted greatly from reading your posts, and to your specific replies to what I have had to say. I can honestly say that you and the other LS posters have helped put me on a great path from a rocky 2003 to what I believe will be a great 2004. Heck, I may even change my user name to something more positive! ;^) So... happy new year -- I've got a good feeling about this one! Link to post Share on other sites
bark Posted December 31, 2003 Share Posted December 31, 2003 I too will toast all my LoveShack cyberbuds. It has been a rough year, but without LS, it would have been even rougher. For that I'm deeply grateful. Cheers!!! Link to post Share on other sites
lostforwords Posted December 31, 2003 Share Posted December 31, 2003 And no pissy posts from Lostforwords! LMAO ........looks around the room and sheepishly heads for the furthest chair...... then very quickly sticks out her tongue at Caddy...... [color=white]ya know ya luff me[/color] Link to post Share on other sites
Caddy Posted December 31, 2003 Share Posted December 31, 2003 Originally posted by lostforwords ........looks around the room and sheepishly heads for the furthest chair...... then very quickly sticks out her tongue at Caddy...... [color=white]ya know ya luff me[/color] It's lub not luff you powder puff! Link to post Share on other sites
lostforwords Posted December 31, 2003 Share Posted December 31, 2003 LUB LUFF LOVE LUV... who cares!!!! same meaning...... lmao Link to post Share on other sites
yes Posted December 31, 2003 Share Posted December 31, 2003 sounds great, moimeme, cheers!!! -yes Link to post Share on other sites
Errol Posted December 31, 2003 Share Posted December 31, 2003 Cheers! Beers! Heres to no tears! Happy New Year Everyone. (Don't forget the 12:05 glass of water!) Link to post Share on other sites
Caddy Posted December 31, 2003 Share Posted December 31, 2003 Originally posted by Errol Cheers! Beers! Heres to no tears! Happy New Year Everyone. (Don't forget the 12:05 glass of water!) And a couple of asprins/ibuprofen whatever your preference is!!! Cheer to you! Link to post Share on other sites
Thinkalot Posted December 31, 2003 Share Posted December 31, 2003 Good words merry...and happy new year to all! I am feeling pretty good about 2004...! Link to post Share on other sites
brashgal Posted December 31, 2003 Share Posted December 31, 2003 Thanks moimeme - I had a similar start to 2003, returned from a nice family trip to retrieve an RV from a relative, visions of wonderful trips for the new year dancing in my head until I caught him and OW in flagrante delicto in said RV a week later in a park near his office. He came crawling back and we tried another 6 months. Wish I had known about LS then, might have saved myself a whole lot of grief. But not to dwell on the past - Onward!! to wonderful relationships in every aspect of our lives. I'm better for having read everyone's posts. hugs from the not-so-brash gal Link to post Share on other sites
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