anybody here who felt like *you dont want to be around your family anymore?*

[kristinabopp]

im just wondering, if there are people here who is feeling kind of awkward when they are around their family? or if you guys want to move out so bad, because you dont want to be around your family anymore? im actually, not feeling comfortable around them /i dont like them being around me and i cant wait to move out.

[jerbear]

We all get that one day! Till we get the bill for the price of freedoml! :lmao:

 

My mother still thinks she is the primary woman in my life, far from it, , and she hates it. Sometimes you have to put your foot down. With my parents (mom mostly), I've told them; "if you want grandchildren, treat my GF better because she might be the mother of YOUR grandchildren.

Edited January 30, 2010 by jerbear

[kristinabopp]

i know. haha damn, parents think that their kids will be with them forever! like they will do anything so that their kids will not leave the house, and i find that sooooooooooooooooooooooo annoying and AWKWARD!EEW! hahaha

[jerbear]

i know. haha damn, parents think that their kids will be with them forever! like they will do anything so that their kids will not leave the house, and i find that sooooooooooooooooooooooo annoying and AWKWARD!EEW! hahaha

 

Oh yeah!

 

I left the house when I could afford it and first thing after college! I didn't give my parents a key! Also don't ask them for to much input because one of the parents will say something.

[Citizen Erased]

I felt like that every day for 17 years, 11 months and 6 days until I moved out of home. Now it's all good.

[kristinabopp]

jerbear: yeah, im not asking my mom anything. and i never will, i dont want them to rub that in my face when something goes wrong. for now, ill do whatever they want and then move out this coming fall semester.

 

 

citizen erased: wow. u move out at 17 yrs old. thats tough. im like 20 and still being controlled. glad that your happy now!

[Citizen Erased]

citizen erased: wow. u move out at 17 yrs old. thats tough. im like 20 and still being controlled. glad that your happy now!

I did. My mother didn't speak to me for a year but she came around and it really was the best thing I could have done. Not saying this will apply in your case but your happiness is what is key, if you're not happy there do what you can to leave. Life's too short.

[kristinabopp]

citizen erased: i know, im preparing everything first, im saving money to go to school this fall semester and move out. but i have to save money first. for now im still looking for room/apartments and also submitting resume's online. and thats true, lifes to short, and i wanna enjoy every minute of it. but thanks! u sure did inspire me!

[andree002]

I felt like moving out really bad too when I was 17-18. I got into a 4 year school and went there for a year and a half before leaving because I hated the environment there, too much drugs and alcohol, just not my thing. But now I am back living with my parents at 20, and it isn't so bad. Don't get me wrong living away from them was a very good experience, but it's not ALL it's hyped up to be. But I am planning on moving out if I get enough money, but school and apt living is very expensive, just remember that if you decide to move out.

[kristinabopp]

Andree. yea i know that, i just came back here living w/ them again. and it was a bad decision for coming back, i should have never came back. and when i leave this time, i make sure i dont come back to live with them anymore.now,im working and saving more money as much as i can to go back to school this fall away from them..