dreamer84 Posted February 1, 2010 Share Posted February 1, 2010 I think things are not going as well as I projected...I was minding my business and she began chatting with me...I wonder what this means...it seems since i said something along the lines of seeing someone...or datng...ive been getting more interaction...could be a figment of my imagine natioin...at first i was lying but now...it really is someone im talking to...she is attractive...but she has some baggages i care not to be apart of....idk...im really feeling like wtf... this is all happening after i lost all the music ive ever created and didnt feel like being bothered. crazy timing right? Link to post Share on other sites
CaliGuy Posted February 1, 2010 Share Posted February 1, 2010 Ok first a question then I will answer yours. Why haven't you completely blocked her from accessing your information!? I'll tell you why. You're fishing here. You purposely posted about going out with someone because you knew she'd read it. This is bad juju. Don't do that. Confident, secure men don't play online games with exes. Now, to answer your question, she is fishing for information. As soon as she finds out what she wants to know (and consequently becomes validated when you tell her you still want to date her) she will drop you like a hot potato. She's not beating your door down, apologizing and saying she wants to be with you forever. She's tossing you breadcrumbs and you're devouring them.... Not good. Link to post Share on other sites
Author dreamer84 Posted February 4, 2010 Author Share Posted February 4, 2010 lol Im not a man... two...its a mixture of throwing it out there for her and for others. Ive mentioned it when she is not online. The other reason why i have not completely blocked her is because we still need to arrange for her to retrieve her things. Im actually going to hit her up asking for x amount a month and so i can ship it to her. (we agreed a while back that i will let her know) She has had some difficulties along the way due to moving about three times in three onths, the first time was because of me...anyway. Im going to milk this for all its worth. The other chick is paying me attention...some that i kind of need right now. hopefully she willsee it and be upset...pay back bitch. and im not going to jump at the first sign of interest (in which i think she has, not sure with her) she has to come all the way out for me to "jump" she's played with me long enough...its her turn. in the mean time, im having fun with the new interest. whether my "ex" is paying attention or not. Link to post Share on other sites
Odyssey Posted February 4, 2010 Share Posted February 4, 2010 OP, so this is about...payback?! Link to post Share on other sites
CaliGuy Posted February 4, 2010 Share Posted February 4, 2010 lol Im not a man... two...its a mixture of throwing it out there for her and for others. Ive mentioned it when she is not online. The other reason why i have not completely blocked her is because we still need to arrange for her to retrieve her things. Im actually going to hit her up asking for x amount a month and so i can ship it to her. (we agreed a while back that i will let her know) She has had some difficulties along the way due to moving about three times in three onths, the first time was because of me...anyway. Im going to milk this for all its worth. The other chick is paying me attention...some that i kind of need right now. hopefully she willsee it and be upset...pay back bitch. and im not going to jump at the first sign of interest (in which i think she has, not sure with her) she has to come all the way out for me to "jump" she's played with me long enough...its her turn. in the mean time, im having fun with the new interest. whether my "ex" is paying attention or not. The best revenge is a life well lived. Box her crap up, give it to a friend and have them take it to her. Then block her from being able to contact you. If she really wanted to be with you, she'd be beating your front door down. Link to post Share on other sites
Author dreamer84 Posted February 6, 2010 Author Share Posted February 6, 2010 that would be mighty hard from long distance, we don't have mutual friends and we live in different states. but i am having fun with my new one Link to post Share on other sites
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