cabbs1989 Posted February 1, 2010 Share Posted February 1, 2010 Hi Ive been talkin to this girl via msn since summer then, she was in canada at the time, however she is actually from scotland, shes back there now & when she got back we gave eachother our mobiles, & now talk regually on the phone every day, im from England, while she is in sctoland so the distance is around 6 odd hours, she has meant to come down to me where im based at uni 4 odd times but hasnt come down to personal reason, last thursday she was meant to but text me in the morning saying we should end this before every of us gets hurt, an hour later she has changed her mind to my relieve! it made me realise that i actually really like this girl lots & on nights out at uni other girls notice me but none live up to her, i really want her to come down but dont wana push her & recently the strain of the distance has got to me & caused me to act all lovey dovey & I dont wana seem clingy & that. i need some advice on how to make it work with this girl because i truly care bout it & she said she tends to end good things before they start because she doesnt wana get hurt. how can i make her realise i wont hurt her? & how can i get her to come see me? thanks Link to post Share on other sites
nrmommie Posted February 2, 2010 Share Posted February 2, 2010 that is a tuff one. i had told my bf the first time we talked that i would not meet him or form a relationship with him because of the distance and the fact that he is military and will deploy. i know myself, and i know that i am not really cut out to handle that. i met him a month later, and we have been together for a month, and i think about bailing on a regular basis. how did he make it happen? well he never pushed to meet me. we talked online almost every night, he would find me and start a chat. just casual, nothing deep. he didn't work it, you know? he just let the connection build. he talked about the other girls he was seeing or had seen, in our casual conversations. so i guess i never felt pressured in anyway. but... i knew from the start that i would eventually meet him, even though i did not want to. Link to post Share on other sites
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