USMCHokie Posted February 3, 2010 Share Posted February 3, 2010 why is this harder than being dumped? Because the more time passes, the more real it will feel. Unfortunately, it gets harder before it can get better...but you've had the taste of what it's like to be better...it's just a matter of time before you're right back there... Link to post Share on other sites
Author bananaboat11 Posted February 3, 2010 Author Share Posted February 3, 2010 (edited) Because the more time passes, the more real it will feel. Unfortunately, it gets harder before it can get better...but you've had the taste of what it's like to be better...it's just a matter of time before you're right back there... heh. sorry. i am a piece of **** right now. I've been asked out to a drink by my ex. I have 2 up coming blind dates supposedly... was hit on by a girl who works at starbucks... or she was just making friendly conversation (hope it was the first), but she has class right after my class (that I teach)... i'm going to ask her out to a drink tomorrow when I see her (why not? the worst she'll do is say no, but be flattered.. we struck up a decent conversation tonight)... and I spoke to another ex girlfriend who is my supposed soulmate and now a 'close/best friend' who was afraid of losing me, etc, etc, etc... Edited February 3, 2010 by bananaboat11 Link to post Share on other sites
USMCHokie Posted February 3, 2010 Share Posted February 3, 2010 I've been asked out to a drink by my ex. What. The. F*ck. ? Link to post Share on other sites
Angel1111 Posted February 3, 2010 Share Posted February 3, 2010 No, it isn't blocked on his end. The caller hid their number when calling (aka Restricted). Oh, I see. I didn't know that. Thanks. Link to post Share on other sites
Angel1111 Posted February 3, 2010 Share Posted February 3, 2010 What. The. F*ck. ? I second that. Link to post Share on other sites
D-Lish Posted February 3, 2010 Share Posted February 3, 2010 I experience at setback everytime my ex reaches out to me. It drives me nuts that I allow him to have that kind of effect on me after a year. The best thing to do is to get out of your pj's and maintain your daily routine- no matter how hard it is. Link to post Share on other sites
USMCHokie Posted February 3, 2010 Share Posted February 3, 2010 The best thing to do is to get out of your pj's and maintain your daily routine- no matter how hard it is. Agreed...but first Rob needs to explain his previous statement...immejiately... Link to post Share on other sites
Author bananaboat11 Posted February 3, 2010 Author Share Posted February 3, 2010 What. The. F*ck. ? Not Nicole (recent ex). A previous ex. Link to post Share on other sites
Author bananaboat11 Posted February 3, 2010 Author Share Posted February 3, 2010 I experience at setback everytime my ex reaches out to me. It drives me nuts that I allow him to have that kind of effect on me after a year. The best thing to do is to get out of your pj's and maintain your daily routine- no matter how hard it is. walk around the apartment in the buff? Link to post Share on other sites
Author bananaboat11 Posted February 3, 2010 Author Share Posted February 3, 2010 A previous ex of an LT relationship. She was hot & a lot of fun to be with too. It was a mutual breakup (started from her end after a heated conversation on religion... then NC from her @ first... I apologized. she wanted friendship. I tried.... after a few hours, I went NC... 1 year and 4 months later a few days before Valentine's Day (day we broke up) she contacted me... kinda kept LC until this past summer) Link to post Share on other sites
USMCHokie Posted February 3, 2010 Share Posted February 3, 2010 Not Nicole (recent ex). A previous ex. Check... It's interesting how exes from the past somehow magically appear right after a breakup...sometimes it's downright scary... walk around the apartment in the buff? Or outside. But I guess it's a little chilly up there... Link to post Share on other sites
Author bananaboat11 Posted February 3, 2010 Author Share Posted February 3, 2010 Or outside. But I guess it's a little chilly up there... I'm a show-er Link to post Share on other sites
D-Lish Posted February 3, 2010 Share Posted February 3, 2010 walk around the apartment in the buff? Yes, but be careful if you decide to use the stove:cool: Link to post Share on other sites
USMCHokie Posted February 3, 2010 Share Posted February 3, 2010 Yes, but be careful if you decide to use the stove:cool: Indeed. Make sure you use potholders. Link to post Share on other sites
Author bananaboat11 Posted February 3, 2010 Author Share Posted February 3, 2010 i give up Link to post Share on other sites
USMCHokie Posted February 3, 2010 Share Posted February 3, 2010 i give up What now... Link to post Share on other sites
sunrae Posted February 3, 2010 Share Posted February 3, 2010 i give up What had happened??? Link to post Share on other sites
kristinabopp Posted February 4, 2010 Share Posted February 4, 2010 omfg!BB! i know how u feel! it happened to me this january 25!my ex called me! its on my thread! but seriously, his number was UNKNOWN.im like wtf, i know his number he doesnt need to make it UNKNOWN u know. LOL that sucks! first time i picked up i dont hear anything, the 2nd time i picked up he whispered *i miss you* and then the third time he told me not to hang up and he wants to talk. so yea, im like wtf!! he called?!! no waaaaaaaaaaaay! omg, i wanna die right now! this is going to hurt me so bad again!*even if it didnt, but it makes me have mind games.. u know..* just incase its her, its up to you if u wanna talk to her or not. sometimes u would rather take the risk. i took the risk. but its because i told him everything that i feel.. keep us posted!! good luck! Link to post Share on other sites
CaliGuy Posted February 4, 2010 Share Posted February 4, 2010 Get a new cell #, problem solved. That's what I did Link to post Share on other sites
Author bananaboat11 Posted February 4, 2010 Author Share Posted February 4, 2010 Get a new cell #, problem solved. That's what I did I think I may tomorrow. Probably the best 15.00 USD i'll ever spend Link to post Share on other sites
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