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I posted here before about a guy I met online before Halloween. We went out the first night then met up again for a 2nd time and had sex. Well I assumed since we had sex so soon it would just be a sex buddy thing and I was OK with this. I didn't expect much more.

 

Anyway, we go out a few more times, atleast 1 time a week. He brought me out to dinner to a concert and just watched movies at his house. Every time we see each other he tells me how much he likes me and says I am just using him for sex, blah blah blah. He told me one of the times that he would like to make me his GF. I did not react at all and just kind shrugged the comment off. He always tells me I need to come over more often.

Well we do not talk at all unless we are together. He will text me to set up plans to hang out, but never calls. We talked on the phone maybe 2 times. So we only talk when we are in person. He is always signed in on IM and still we have limited conversation there. I mean he is signed in 24/7. I know he hasn't been on the site we met on in the last 30 days, (yes I Spy).

I seen him last Wednesday and not heard from him since. Like even now, he is signed in. I sent him a message on Sat and said "hey baby, don't you miss me?" and he came back with "yup" and that was it. Well I was a little drunky and sent back about an hour later "f u jerk" and he said "what" to which I didn't reply anything cause I felt like an ass!

So then on Sunday, he texts me on his way home from out of town with "hey baby" and I took about an hour to reply and said "hey whats up" and he said "just on way home" thats it. We didn't exchange anything else.

 

I wonder if he realized something about me that he didn't realize before and decided he doesn't like me so much, or if I am just not sending enough signals that I do like him MAYBE more than a FWB. I am a shy kind of quiet girl, maybe this is a huge turn off, or I just don't know.

 

Why is he always signed in? He signs in on his moblie ALL the time. It is annoying. If I send him something, he takes forever to reply. So why is he signed in if he is not going to chat?? Or is he talking to someone else? When we are together I know he isn't signed in and he never gets calls or texts. Also, after we see eachother, he doesn't sign in, text or anything the whole next day. But the day after he is signed in again but still not initiating contact with me and if I do, he takes his sweet ole time to reply.

Even if I send a text, he takes forever to reply. I am not signed in to IM nearly as much as he is.

 

He is pretty irritating!!!! I am not used to this kind of nonchalance from someone. Is it a game? or is this just the way he is?

I do not like dating!!

 

Any advice or feedback is appreciated.