Author girlintwocities Posted March 27, 2010 Author Share Posted March 27, 2010 Wow. Have someone adopt your baby? Wow. Maybe you could just sell it on craigslist. I imagine she wants your baby boy adopted out so that you can never come back between them. Either for relationship or money for the child. If he's adopted, the adoptive parents can't sue for support like you could. I figure he told her because he knew you were going to keep the baby. Wow. However, I can see where she's coming from. If she's his age, I'm sure she doesn't want to start over. I'm sure she'd like to just forget about it. And your baby being adopted by strangers would help make that happen. Sad. I hear you. That isn't even an option. It was her ideal to not potentially lose her husband as he feels more guilty for not being with the child and you may be right about the money issue too. I'm trying not to fault her as I'm sure she is in pain, but wow is right. Link to post Share on other sites
joyalexsus Posted April 6, 2010 Share Posted April 6, 2010 i was with a MM guy for 5 months, but we ended it up wen the wife found out about us. i also found out that i was 4 weeks pregnant. the guy still wants us 2 be together but after the emotional turmoil that it caused and he left me hanging, i decided to treat them as people who are already dead.now im already in my 7 months pregnancy and no communication to them, never bother to know their whereabouts, suddenly the wife found out that i was pregnant coz i guess she still cant move on and threatening to sue me for having a child to his husband. i was mentally worried coz i'm a single mom...i plan to raise my child alone, to live my life peacefully, to start again, i've already move on. i need to get back to my job but worried to do so if i will face legal charges. is there any legal charges that she can put on me? coz as far as i know it is me who can file a charge for a child support. Link to post Share on other sites
joyalexsus Posted April 11, 2010 Share Posted April 11, 2010 because of this thing. it puts me into stress while having my baby. all i could think of right now is for his. i wanted to protect him from any harm and to be sure that i could secure a good future for him. i maybe made a mistake but he is the loveliest mistake i ever did:) he is my strength, my life and my fulfillment. i just do hope that we can continue living a quiet life together. Link to post Share on other sites
Owl Posted April 12, 2010 Share Posted April 12, 2010 The only thing she could 'sue' you for would be 'alienation of affection'...IF the state you or she lives in is one of the very few that has that law on the books. HE might sue for paternity rights if he chose to do so...but that's a seperate issue entirely. Link to post Share on other sites
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