let him go?

[Kiey]

As of lately, I have seriously been having problems with my boyfriend. I don't tell him anything, however, I feel as if I need to let him go. Last weekend he left with his friends and went out to some night clubs where I knew he wasn't old enough to go. I asked him where he went and he only told me half of it. A couple of friends and I went riding and found a place to go to that night when one of my friends spotted my boyfriend grinning in some other girl's face. I wanted to approach him but my friend reprimanded me and insisted I say nothing about it, so I didn't. However, this week he has an interview in Houston with a company called Ernst and Young which will last overnight. He didn't tell me until today that he wouldn't be coming home the next day because he's going out with his friends. I have a problem trusting him because I don't feel he tells me the truth about everything I ask him, and he makes very poor decisions around girls, other girls. What should I do? I know a relationship can't last without trust.

[mari'beth]

it depends on how long you've been with him, how much your heart is involved. if you love each other you should be open and honest. Ask to go out with him and his friends to a favorite hang out once in a while. don't act like you are his girlfriend, see if any other women approach him as an "old friend".

 

it may hurt first hand, but its better than living in a relationship full of secrets and lies