stillafool Posted March 10, 2010 Share Posted March 10, 2010 I think the problem with 'nice girls' is the same with 'nice guys' they are sometimes attracted to their opposites and find it frustrating when the attention is not returned. People can't help who they are attracted to. Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted March 10, 2010 Share Posted March 10, 2010 If nice guys finish last, then so do nice girls. i would agree, i just dumped a "Nice girl" a few weeks ago. She was boring Link to post Share on other sites
carhill Posted March 10, 2010 Share Posted March 10, 2010 Masochist Link to post Share on other sites
nowomanocry Posted March 11, 2010 Share Posted March 11, 2010 i would agree, i just dumped a "Nice girl" a few weeks ago. She was boring Halleluljah to that one as well Revenge sweet revenge lol Link to post Share on other sites
nowomanocry Posted March 11, 2010 Share Posted March 11, 2010 . I'm a 22 y/o guy and I'm very much a relationship person. I do not care about "getting around." Honestly, the idea of a one-night stand or purely sexual relationship with some stereotypically hot, ditzy loose girl is exciting, but the idea of pursuing anything beyond that with one of those types actually makes me a little sick. My ex was my first, and I would have gladly spent the rest of me life with her had she not left me. Guys like us are out there. Just look in the right places. Lol Carolina Im afraid you gona get loads of kick up the azz mate with this attitude and frame of mind - you gonna be kicked around. Good luck Link to post Share on other sites
threebyfate Posted March 11, 2010 Share Posted March 11, 2010 Nikki, what you`re learning is how to assert your personal boundaries of behaviour. When someone crosses that line, push back or yes, people can and will, empty you. Having said all that, there`s another side to this. Is what you`re giving, what the other person sees as something worthwhile? As examples of such: A man sees sex as the only thing that makes him feel loved and appreciated. His SO cooks, cleans and caters to every whim, except...sex. Does he still feel loved? A woman sees expensive jewelry as a way to make her feel loved and appreciated. Her SO fixes her car, drives her everywhere, caters to her every whim but doesn`t believe in wasting money on baubles. Does she feel loved? Do the above stereotypical forms of behaviour sound familiar, if not to Nikki, to any other members? Replace sex and jewelry with other needs, to make it fit your situation. Link to post Share on other sites
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