friends problem on breaking up due to different religions...

[AnGeLic_gAL]

Hello everyone, i want an advice from u ppl on a friend's problem...i really don't know how to handle her,

shes totally in love with this guy and and she thinks that he loves her too...

the thing is that they are friends for the past 4 yrs...but only true friends!!!

its from his attitude towards her that she has been able to realize that he

loves her too...she says that he is scared to tell her about his love coz of

their religious differences......(although i think that its a pretty funny logic but thats wat she believes in)

 

 

She says that he is a kind of guy who wud always want a long-term relationship like

marriage and not any dating stuff....she also wants to establish a long-term

relationship like him.........but the problem is that they both can't leave their

religions...my friend won't leave her religion coz she strictly believes in it and

also wud never like to hurt her parents by converting......n as far as the guy is concerned,

she says that he won't convert too....

 

 

She really loves him........i've seen her cry for him alot.....but am totally

confused of wat to do for her........She is too shy to ask him directly about his love...n i know her

nature she wudn't do that ever...i asked her to allow me solving the problem

by asking him but she won't allow me too....she can get over it if she won't

get to see him that often but the problem is that they both work at the same

place, she can't avoid him..this is also because they have been good friends

and there must be some good enough reason to stop talking tom someone...

 

 

Now the situation is that she is just hanging between the sky and

the earth!! and its hurting me alot coz shes been my really good friend...n

i really care for her.....

 

 

Such situations just leave u with a broken-heart n nothing else......

 

Anyone who want to give some advice for my friend....??????

 

I appreciate ur help people...

[Paulie]

so they've been close friends for 4 years, and somebody hasnt made a move yet??? The thing about religion, well that depends on what religion the two of them are. Some religions are much more tolerant of marraige to someone outside of the religion than others. Man...I dont know, I guess she should just tell him how she feels, and if there's some kind of issue about religion or optherwise, then they should either work it out or break up. Sometimes u just gotta make a move, u know?

Paulie

[AnGeLic_gAL]

Paulie thanks alot for the advice...i've been telling her the same but she just

can't be the first one to make a move....as i've already told she is kinda shy...

thanks alot anyways......i appreciate ur response...