Am i just being stupid?

[fat_man_25]

Me and my ex were together for 6 months, I know its a short time but she some how slipped through my guard and I found my self loving her. We broke up and she says its over but is fine with being friends. She knows if I think its over I don't have any contact with the person. We pretty much still do everything as if we were dating. still hang out, still go out, still tell each other "i love you". She knows I don't want it to be over and I have made it clear I don't. How do you act like that to someone if you want it to be over? should I just move on or do yall think she is just playn hard to get?

[USMCHokie]

You MUST move on and remove her from your life...she is just keeping you in that "boyfriend" role until someone better comes along...and when that guy arrives, she'll be long gone...and you'll be left wondering what happened...and getting to hear stories about how wonderful this new guy is...

 

The best thing you can do for yourself now is to leave this "friendship" with some sort of dignity intact and stop contact with this girl...if she can't be with you the same way you want to be with her, then she doesn't deserve you in her life...

 

And stop saying "I love you"...my ex and I did this for like a month after we broke up while we were still talking...FAIL...

[kwyser]

Sounds like she is being selfish and doesn't want to be in a formal relationship, but doesn't want you to move on either.

 

Talk to her about it and see what she says.

 

Depending on what she says, it may be time for you to move on.

[fat_man_25]

I stopped trying to call or text her so she finally wanted to talk. i think we came to a stalemate. She said friends was all she had to offer maybe more later on. I said I wanted some type of commit or it was going to work. I still love her and i don't want to keep something going on a maybe. I feel she just wants me to be in her life when its good for her, but anytime something don't go her way whip out the friend card.