haily.s Posted November 18, 1998 Share Posted November 18, 1998 Recently my boyfriend of a year and a half just turned 19,and hes decided that he wants to go to the stippers,maybe i wouldnt mind if i had more self esteem but i dont really have any and it makes me very jelouse that he wants to look at other naked girls. Im havig a hard time dealing with this its always on my mind i just dont know how to deal with it and i dont know if it is wrong for him to go when hes in a relationship and if it isnt wrong i want to know how to make it so im not jelouse when he goes..... Link to post Share on other sites
Amanda Posted November 18, 1998 Share Posted November 18, 1998 So he wants to go see strippers. You have to remember who he'll be coming home to or calling later on that night. If he really loves you it won't be one of those strippers. You'll be the one he's calling, taking out, and the one that he spends most of his time with. I went through the same thing with my ex boyfriend. I had to realize that he was coming home to me, telling me he loved me. As soon as you realize that everything will be fine. Oh and we didn't break up because of this. So if you're thinking that, then you can stop. Recently my boyfriend of a year and a half just turned 19,and hes decided that he wants to go to the stippers,maybe i wouldnt mind if i had more self esteem but i dont really have any and it makes me very jelouse that he wants to look at other naked girls. Im havig a hard time dealing with this its always on my mind i just dont know how to deal with it and i dont know if it is wrong for him to go when hes in a relationship and if it isnt wrong i want to know how to make it so im not jelouse when he goes..... Link to post Share on other sites
Charly Posted November 18, 1998 Share Posted November 18, 1998 I went through the same thing about a year ago with my boyfriend of then one year. I didn't mind him going to see them, but it played on my mind a lot afterwards. Especially since beofre we started going out he had a huge boys w'end and ended up at a brothel. But I realised that if I wanted to be with him, I would have to give him the benefit of the doubt. Another thing which really helped was when we organised a girls night out to the male strippers. That was an awesome night and they went the Full Monty. And the best thing about that night was that I got so horny I went home and had a night full of passionate sex with the man I love. Guys will be guys and as long as you know he loves you then you shouldn't have to worry. The self esteem is a seperate issue all together...maybe you should do your own little strip for him and see exactly how much he likes you!!! Little things like that always help to boost the esteem!! Recently my boyfriend of a year and a half just turned 19,and hes decided that he wants to go to the stippers,maybe i wouldnt mind if i had more self esteem but i dont really have any and it makes me very jelouse that he wants to look at other naked girls. Im havig a hard time dealing with this its always on my mind i just dont know how to deal with it and i dont know if it is wrong for him to go when hes in a relationship and if it isnt wrong i want to know how to make it so im not jelouse when he goes..... Link to post Share on other sites
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