animalinthemist Posted February 16, 2010 Share Posted February 16, 2010 well i dont know what to say anymore. ive been w/ my bf since 2007 and we've been apart for a while. he likes to go to this coffee shop wherein the waitresses wear really skimpy outfits. i hate it with a passion. if i could make art w/ my hate, i can sell it and make money. ive told him it makes me unhappy but since his friends go there to play cards and stuff, he still goes. his friend told me that the girls there now only wear "pasties". and a thong bikini. it didnt make me mad anymore, it made me feel sad and depressed. i love my bf a lot and hes pretty much ok..hes done his fair share of letting me know he loves me a lot too. but this one i cannot really take. i have jealousy issues and all my life no woman has tried to take my guy..it never happened. maybe they wanna avoid an early demise. (jk). anyway im just really mad/angry/confused. i dont wanna confront him about it anymore. why? because its gonna be useless. he still will go there. he will say hes going there to play cards and smoke w/ his friends. but those women wearing pasties and thongs, seriously..it makes my blood boil. it makes me wanna cheat on him.it makes me wanna break his heart 10 million times. Link to post Share on other sites
Minnie09 Posted February 16, 2010 Share Posted February 16, 2010 Do they go to hooker bars/strip clubs to play cards? Really? Link to post Share on other sites
SoConfusledandHurt Posted February 17, 2010 Share Posted February 17, 2010 How often does he go? Thats some bullshyte! And trust me...there are guys out there who would realize how freaking selfish and disrespectful it is to hang out in a place like that when not single! Link to post Share on other sites
ducknrun Posted February 17, 2010 Share Posted February 17, 2010 Be honest to him about how you feel. If he cares he would stop going and have his friends meet somewhere else. Maybe suggest card night at your place once or twice instead of going there. On the other hand if he loves you and treats you well you shouldn't worry. He comes home to you at the end of the night after all. If it bothers you there should be some compromise. Healthy relationships have good communication. Link to post Share on other sites
D-Lish Posted February 17, 2010 Share Posted February 17, 2010 There are coffee shops with naked servers? Link to post Share on other sites
paleblue Posted February 17, 2010 Share Posted February 17, 2010 maybe you should find a coffe shop of your own where there are waiters and they only wear a bowtie. tit for tat. right? and if he gets mad say o well i enjoy going there because thats were my friends are. Link to post Share on other sites
bluestraps Posted February 17, 2010 Share Posted February 17, 2010 Sounds like a real winner you have there. You guys are probably young. You dont need to give your ages , but . Id say just find another guy . Link to post Share on other sites
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