Awesome Username Posted February 16, 2010 Share Posted February 16, 2010 So you are incapable of deciding whether you are having fun and enjoying someone's company without getting your friend's input first? And why is there such a gender divide when it comes to this matter? I don't think there's as much of a gender divide as it would seem. My guy just did it to me, and I adore his friends! Link to post Share on other sites
Author moodoo Posted February 16, 2010 Author Share Posted February 16, 2010 itzonator, you think im in the friend zone because I can make her laugh and she wants her friends to meet me? I dont get why though, thats usually a good thing I thought Link to post Share on other sites
Itzonator Posted February 16, 2010 Share Posted February 16, 2010 itzonator, you think im in the friend zone because I can make her laugh and she wants her friends to meet me? I dont get why though, thats usually a good thing I thought There is nothing wrong with making her laugh and have fun. If you want to kiss her, and if you want her to respond back to you, then you need to build a sexual tension. You can be still funny, but if you mix it with a little arrogance, it rocks Check this out: In this video you will see how Wayne Brady builds a tension ... and release it when he laughs. When interacting with a girl, if YOU laugh on your OWN jokes, it loses "the magic" to them, releasing the tension that has been built up. Have you noticed that? Link to post Share on other sites
Itzonator Posted February 16, 2010 Share Posted February 16, 2010 Laughter releases/loses the sexual tension, if used for ONLY to be funny. Link to post Share on other sites
carhill Posted February 16, 2010 Share Posted February 16, 2010 There's a time and a place for friends. IMO, two dates and no kisses is not the time nor is a gathering of only her friends the place. YMMV. If you're really ballsy, you'll kiss her in front of her friends. Mark your territory. That'll annoy her for sure. Love that sexual tension. Link to post Share on other sites
Itzonator Posted February 16, 2010 Share Posted February 16, 2010 There's a time and a place for friends. IMO, two dates and no kisses is not the time nor is a gathering of only her friends the place. YMMV. If you're really ballsy, you'll kiss her in front of her friends. Mark your territory. That'll annoy her for sure. Love that sexual tension. Right, you got it! Sexual Tension is build up when you FLIRT with somebody or CREATING AN INNER CONFLICT with a HUMOR When you stay in the position of being only FUNNY, it is great at the beginning, but then ... people just adapt to it, and it is no fun as in the beginning ... ohhh nooo another joke see what I am saying? Ok whatever, I got it ... you are a clown so do not overdo it. Link to post Share on other sites
Author moodoo Posted February 17, 2010 Author Share Posted February 17, 2010 so what are you two suggesting i do or dont do? Link to post Share on other sites
Malenfant Posted February 21, 2010 Share Posted February 21, 2010 If she was sure that she liked him, she wouldn't need to put on him display for her social circle. And what does 'proper couple' mean anyway? Are you saying that it's up to her friends to decide whether they are, in fact, a 'proper couple'? so touchy!! My point was that a person only introduces a love interest to their friends if they feel it could really go somewhere. ie. possibly becoming a couple and not just a casual thing. Not saying that the friends have to give their permission, thats just daft, and not what i was saying at all. you're reading way too much into my comment. Link to post Share on other sites
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