greatgirlfriend Posted February 17, 2010 Share Posted February 17, 2010 Since I won't get the guy I want (at least for now) I've decided my next tactic will be to use the next guy. Get him right away to spend money on me. We go out? He buys everything. This will work especially with not so attractive guys. If he has money I'll have fun using him. Meanwhile he'll get no sex. Or if he does get sex it'll be because I've decided I want to marry him or get pregnant. Sure, I may not love him, but if he's stupid enough to go with this, then he deserves all the terrible he can get. Then he'll likely never want to date again after I cheat on him with some hot guy. I should have done this years ago. Link to post Share on other sites
soulm8 Posted February 17, 2010 Share Posted February 17, 2010 Woof! This is precisely why it is difficult to find love. People get hurt and feel justified to hurt others instead of dusting themselves off and trying again... after reflecting upon what went wrong. Seriously woman, what satisfaction are you going to get from acting like a spoiled brat? I promise you, it won't feel good. Link to post Share on other sites
SOLACEMENT Posted February 17, 2010 Share Posted February 17, 2010 And you are how old?...Too old to have that idea in your head...sad sad Best of luck Link to post Share on other sites
Author greatgirlfriend Posted February 17, 2010 Author Share Posted February 17, 2010 After what men did to me, they deserve it back in spades. They are all evil so it's best to hurt someone like I've been hurt. If I can't have the one I want, I don't want others, so they deserve to be hurt. I can't wait. Right now I am looking at profiles of guys who look desperate. They are going to get theirs. Link to post Share on other sites
Lizzie60 Posted February 17, 2010 Share Posted February 17, 2010 Keep us update.. that should be interesting.. Men use women for sex.. women use men for money... fair! Link to post Share on other sites
soulm8 Posted February 17, 2010 Share Posted February 17, 2010 After what men did to me, they deserve it back in spades. They are all evil so it's best to hurt someone like I've been hurt. If I can't have the one I want, I don't want others, so they deserve to be hurt. I can't wait. Right now I am looking at profiles of guys who look desperate. They are going to get theirs. I urge you to go look at yourself in the mirror, right now. Have a good cry and adjust your attitude. No one is ENTITLED to love. It's a gift. Link to post Share on other sites
Author greatgirlfriend Posted February 17, 2010 Author Share Posted February 17, 2010 Keep us update.. that should be interesting.. Men use women for sex.. women use men for money... fair! Only they won't get sex unless I get something out of it (and this won't happen unless he has money). Link to post Share on other sites
skydiveaddict Posted February 17, 2010 Share Posted February 17, 2010 Since I won't get the guy I want (at least for now) I've decided my next tactic will be to use the next guy. Get him right away to spend money on me. We go out? He buys everything. This will work especially with not so attractive guys. If he has money I'll have fun using him. Meanwhile he'll get no sex. Or if he does get sex it'll be because I've decided I want to marry him or get pregnant. Sure, I may not love him, but if he's stupid enough to go with this, then he deserves all the terrible he can get. Then he'll likely never want to date again after I cheat on him with some hot guy. I should have done this years ago. wow. Glad i'm not gonna be that poor guy. Link to post Share on other sites
PandaStillLovesBunny Posted February 17, 2010 Share Posted February 17, 2010 Don't flatter yourself, honey. Link to post Share on other sites
Kamille Posted February 17, 2010 Share Posted February 17, 2010 You're angry. I always go through an angry phase after a heartbreak. I usually get angry at the specific guy who broke my heart and not all men. I hope for you that this is just a phase in your healing process. Link to post Share on other sites
harmfulsweetz Posted February 17, 2010 Share Posted February 17, 2010 This sounds like a plan. Seriously, I wouldn't do it. What good will come of it? What will you learn? That you too are capable of using and hurting someone? The best revenge is a life well lived. We all feel this way from time to time, but put it into something constructive. Although, do keep us updated, this could be very interesting. Link to post Share on other sites
Vintage79 Posted February 17, 2010 Share Posted February 17, 2010 Only they won't get sex unless I get something out of it (and this won't happen unless he has money). So, you want to be a prostitute... Link to post Share on other sites
Author greatgirlfriend Posted February 17, 2010 Author Share Posted February 17, 2010 Men have to be taught a lesson. If I can't have the one I want, I don't want anyone else. This is their punishment for doing all their trash to me. Screw all men who took advantage because my victim will get it in spades. First, we'll meet then I'll tell them only fancy restaurants will do. Of course they will pay for the meal and I'll order expensive. Then I'll tell them I expect presents. You get the idea. Several months later I'll tell them that if they want sex they have to buy me a nice engagement ring otherwise I won't stay. These guys will pay for the ones who screwed me over. It's also punishing God because of what he did to me. Link to post Share on other sites
skydiveaddict Posted February 17, 2010 Share Posted February 17, 2010 I should have done this years ago. Actually, I'm fed up w/relationships that never work also. I think I know how you feel. Link to post Share on other sites
peanut butter Posted February 17, 2010 Share Posted February 17, 2010 You better be smoking hot or else your plan is going to fail miserably... Link to post Share on other sites
skydiveaddict Posted February 17, 2010 Share Posted February 17, 2010 Men have to be taught a lesson. It's also punishing God because of what he did to me. Some men to be sure. But I learned mine a long time ago Link to post Share on other sites
harmfulsweetz Posted February 17, 2010 Share Posted February 17, 2010 Men have to be taught a lesson. If I can't have the one I want, I don't want anyone else. This is their punishment for doing all their trash to me. Screw all men who took advantage because my victim will get it in spades. First, we'll meet then I'll tell them only fancy restaurants will do. Of course they will pay for the meal and I'll order expensive. Then I'll tell them I expect presents. You get the idea. Several months later I'll tell them that if they want sex they have to buy me a nice engagement ring otherwise I won't stay. These guys will pay for the ones who screwed me over. It's also punishing God because of what he did to me. To be fair, it's not really punishing the guy who hurt you, is it? It's punishing some unsuspecting soul because of what someone else did. Heck, I should have thought of that ages ago! Saved me an awful lot of time, and hurt, plus free meals, presents? What girl in their right mind would argue with that? Where do we find such fools though? Link to post Share on other sites
SOLACEMENT Posted February 17, 2010 Share Posted February 17, 2010 So, you want to be a prostitute... No she is only going to have sex in exchange for money...Not a prostitute at all Link to post Share on other sites
Kamille Posted February 17, 2010 Share Posted February 17, 2010 sigh... I feel the need to point out that 'the one' you can't get told you months ago that he didn't want a relationship. You chose to hang on in the hopes that he would change his mind. surprise, he meant what he said. Sooo.... The part where you take responsibility for your decisions (instead of blaming men and God), when does that happen? Cause, see, once you accept to take a part of the responsibility, you can actually learn from your heartbreak. Oh, I know, don't get angry at men, just get angry at me for relentlessly holding you accountable for your choices. Link to post Share on other sites
Author greatgirlfriend Posted February 17, 2010 Author Share Posted February 17, 2010 Luckily, I am very attractive. However, when it comes to ugly guys even average girls will work. I am looking forward to this. Then I will laugh at them. I like the idea of marrying them, then divorcing and getting money. Really screw them over. Link to post Share on other sites
skydiveaddict Posted February 17, 2010 Share Posted February 17, 2010 Where do we find such fools though? Believe me, they're all over the place Link to post Share on other sites
Author greatgirlfriend Posted February 17, 2010 Author Share Posted February 17, 2010 sigh... I feel the need to point out that 'the one' you can't get told you months ago that he didn't want a relationship. You chose to hang on in the hopes that he would change his mind. surprise, he meant what he said. Sooo.... The part where you take responsibility for your decisions (instead of blaming men and God), when does that happen? Cause, see, once you accept to take a part of the responsibility, you can actually learn from your heartbreak. Oh, I know, don't get angry at men, just get angry at me for relentlessly holding you accountable for your choices. The one I want only told me last week he didn't want a relationship, after he asked me to be his girlfriend and date him exclusively. Link to post Share on other sites
EYECANDY000 Posted February 17, 2010 Share Posted February 17, 2010 Meanwhile he'll get no sex. Or if he does get sex it'll be because I've decided I want to marry him or get pregnant. wow you are willing to do all of this to prove a point? Link to post Share on other sites
Kamille Posted February 17, 2010 Share Posted February 17, 2010 The one I want only told me last week he didn't want a relationship, after he asked me to be his girlfriend and date him exclusively. oh wow! You want me to go fish out the threads? Even you know that's a stretch! Link to post Share on other sites
soulm8 Posted February 17, 2010 Share Posted February 17, 2010 It's also punishing God because of what he did to me. Ok then! Ya know... I'm sitting here and thinking about how often men tell me that I'm the sanest person they've met online. Link to post Share on other sites
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