sunrae Posted February 18, 2010 Share Posted February 18, 2010 Until he shows up at your door step, physically looking you straight in the eye, saying he has made the worest mistake ever by letting you go, and he's the biggest jacka$$ ever. You have to go No Contact. No Im'ing, No Facebook, no myspace, no emails, no texting, no calling and hanging up, no postcards, no birthday cards. Nothing.. Pretend he has dropped off the face of the earth... And like USMC said YOU have to do this.. Link to post Share on other sites
Author kristinabopp Posted February 18, 2010 Author Share Posted February 18, 2010 SUNRAE: yea, only IF HE DOES THAT. but i doubt it. thats waaaay too impossible to happen. and dont you guys worry, this time ill do NC. Link to post Share on other sites
VBH Posted February 19, 2010 Share Posted February 19, 2010 Hey there, Sorry you are going through this....Thought I could help clarify a few things for you.... 1) When you delete someone, that only means they are no longer visible to you. This person, if they have not deleted/blocked you from their account, can still view your status (if you are "available"). So, you haven't accomplished much if anything at all. The only way to be rid of this person, is to block them. 2) Sure, we all do the "invisible" thing, but truthfully we are never really "invisible". We'd just like to think we are. Please visit this site, www.invisible-scanner.com. This site allows you to check a persons ID up to 50 times in a 12 hour period for free. In this case, it is easy to see when someone is online, but is logged in as invisible. Unfortunately, people can check to see whether or not we may be avoiding them or others with little effort and no cost. Sad but true...kind of like you can run, but you can't hide:) Good luck with the NC. It does work. VBH Link to post Share on other sites
MySweetie'sGone Posted February 19, 2010 Share Posted February 19, 2010 Hey there, 2) Sure, we all do the "invisible" thing, but truthfully we are never really "invisible". We'd just like to think we are. Please visit this site, www.invisible-scanner.com. This site allows you to check a persons ID up to 50 times in a 12 hour period for free. In this case, it is easy to see when someone is online, but is logged in as invisible. Unfortunately, people can check to see whether or not we may be avoiding them or others with little effort and no cost. Sad but true...kind of like you can run, but you can't hide:) Good luck with the NC. It does work. VBH Oh wow...I just tried this and it works...wish i didn't know about it now. lol Link to post Share on other sites
Author kristinabopp Posted February 19, 2010 Author Share Posted February 19, 2010 vbh:im only invisible to them and i know im not gonna be online to them because before i deleted them i made myself invisible.but im online to others. so i wont see them and they wont see me. Link to post Share on other sites
Author kristinabopp Posted February 19, 2010 Author Share Posted February 19, 2010 mysweetiesgone:i know, ive known those websitesbefore and never tried them, coz i know they do work.and i dont wnna try them coz i know i might see something i shouldnt see. Link to post Share on other sites
sunrae Posted February 19, 2010 Share Posted February 19, 2010 SUNRAE: . and dont you guys worry, this time ill do NC. OK, We are all going to hold you to that.. Link to post Share on other sites
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