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Alright if any of you read my previous posts you would know most of my situations.

 

If not well refer to my previous posts.

 

Anyway, my girlfriend broke up with me yesterday because of the distance, it made her moody and pissy because she couldn't see me. She didn't really want to talk to me most of the day until later on that night. We talked and she told me she made a mistake and she wants to be with me again, I told her to think about it and she did. So about an hour ago we got back together, it made me happy so I told her I loved her and she just said "I like you". This really bummed me out so I asked her what happened to loving me? She told me that's how she feels now.

 

Is this a joke? I don't understand how a person can go from loving to liking a person in one day.

 

So now it's really awkward to talk.. I don't know what to say and she's giving me her regular one or two worded answers.

 

Any advice? Should I just give this time?

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Alright if any of you read my previous posts you would know most of my situations.

 

If not well refer to my previous posts.

 

Anyway, my girlfriend broke up with me yesterday because of the distance, it made her moody and pissy because she couldn't see me. She didn't really want to talk to me most of the day until later on that night. We talked and she told me she made a mistake and she wants to be with me again, I told her to think about it and she did. So about an hour ago we got back together, it made me happy so I told her I loved her and she just said "I like you". This really bummed me out so I asked her what happened to loving me? She told me that's how she feels now.

 

Is this a joke? I don't understand how a person can go from loving to liking a person in one day.

 

So now it's really awkward to talk.. I don't know what to say and she's giving me her regular one or two worded answers.

 

Any advice? Should I just give this time?

 

Sounds to me like an LDR is just to much for her to handle. IMO, it takes two very strong, comitted and trustworthy people to make a Relationship like this work. What do you think may have pushed her away?

 

Mea:)

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I guess some of you are right (well, all of you). We're back together for the second time and I just feel like I can't let go of her. :/ I feel like I'm getting abused but I'm not.

 

She tells me I'm too emotional and that she 'deals' with it.. I don't cry over us fighting or anything like that, I just tell her that I love her and how I feel for her and she considers it bad.

 

I asked her if she was afraid to be emotional, and she told me no, being emotional is stupid. So I asked her "So what makes you think love isn't emotional, doesn't that make it stupid?" She says, "No, it's not.." then I said "Well what is it then?" She says "I don't know, I'm just like that"

 

I feel like I have to put up with her more than she does with me.

 

Last night, she freaked out at me for no reason saying that she's pissed.. and I asked why and she says I just am.. (There's never a just am mood, I'm pretty sure). So I asked her to tell the truth and she freaks out and tells me to leave her alone. So I don't talk to her for most of the night, and when she called I didn't pick up for a bit then I texted her saying Hey. She responds and here comes her weird mood again. She's basically mad at me because I was pissed at her for freaking out at me for no reason, does she try to cover up her emotions or what? Whenever I do something wrong we fight and she's mad at me for days, whenever she does something I get mad at her and she gets mad at me. This doesn't make sense.. I'm losing hope. The more I get to know her, the more I'm confused and afraid.

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I just broke it off with the most amazing girl I've ever had in my life.. I feel like a piece of **** for breaking her heart.

 

I haven't even read your previous threads but from the sounds of it, that relationship you two had was NOT HEALTHY. Say it with me, NOT HEALTHY. I've been there where you can see the other person's major red flags and yet you still think they are perfect somehow. Even though your always feeling like crap because everything is your fault no matter what you do, yep not healthy. Move on and when you find a great girl you can have a healthy relationship with, you'll be glad you did.

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As an experienced dumpee (lol) I can say rightaway that the final countdown has started and "game will be over" soon. If you do not have a a "B" plan start making one up mate and don't get too disappointed when it will be over soon. Prepare yourself for the allmighty, big decision (lmao) of your girlfriend. When she spits it out than say you were about to quit anyway. Don't show any sign of emotions and never ever call her or do anything to contact her, save your pennies for your future relationship.

 

Good luck mate ;)

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I understand that it wasn't a healthy relationship.. but I guess it's hard letting go because she made me feel like no other.

 

@Nowomanocry, it's already over.

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Her : Happy 2 Months.

Me : You too.

Her : NOT.

Me : Lol. :p

Her : Buhbye. :)

Me : You don't need to be mean. :p By bye, have fun at the show tonight.

Her : What fkn show? Bye fag. :)

Me : The one you told me you were going to today. Don't be like that.

Her : Aint going and I don't want to talk to you duh. :) buhbye

Me : Alright well have a good day.

 

I tried to kept my cool even though I was pissed by the way she was talking to me. :/

I'm pretty upset.

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Well over the time she said she was starting to love me again, or not I don't even know but I broke up to her over the phone and she was crying for awhile, so I guess she had feelings for me.

 

I hate this, cause I was slowly recovering and she comes along and acts like a bitch.

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Is it normal for a girl to act like a complete bitch after you break up with her?

 

Lmao panov

 

Mate you can expect anything from them..

 

same happened to me a couple of weeks ago - OK I can accept there being some problems in the relationshio, but I didn't do anything wrong to her - on the contrary I was the one sacrificing more than her for more than 3 years (everything you can imagine) Now she doesn't even send an sms to ask how I am doing even in a friendly manner - I have done nothing to contact her either, never wept, begged at her door because I was sure of myself and confident in the sense that I did my best (but mine was an LDR so it's different mate). So I said to myself if that not enough I can't and not gonna bother do more - so erased the biatch from my life .. simple as Maybe she still is in love me and took the decision just because she had to but that ain't important anymore. even if she comes back I will be the one to kick her - but that don't matter, I don't wanna know anymore

 

Keep your spirits up mate, you can do it. she's not worth it , none of them are

 

Cheers

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And to think I loved her, she was always kinda bitchy but I dealt with that. She's saying oh i no longer have feelings for you and i'm happy without you. I told her I'm glad your happy and she says Thanks bitch. So I just take my anger out on her because it was pissing me off. You guys are right, I don't need this.. I deserve better.

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And to think I loved her, she was always kinda bitchy but I dealt with that. She's saying oh i no longer have feelings for you and i'm happy without you. I told her I'm glad your happy and she says Thanks bitch. So I just take my anger out on her because it was pissing me off. You guys are right, I don't need this.. I deserve better.

 

Panov, cut contact with her, why you call her and say your glad to hear she is happy? Of course you deserve better, why waaste your time with that ....? Move on, live your life fully, carpe diem mate!!!

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