laRubiaBonita Posted February 19, 2010 Share Posted February 19, 2010 I guess that ends things with her. Just don't get how some people can be two-faced and say oh yeah things between us are going great, then the next minute go and do this. Kinda not cool in my book. Guess I'll be saving this idea for someone else. Just disappointment all around. wow.... that sucks!!! at least you didn't waste too much of your precious life on her. she will get an STD. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Jamesith Posted February 19, 2010 Author Share Posted February 19, 2010 Oh I know thats the only upside to this situation. Was that I didn't really spend my the time like hooked on pleasing her or like buying her gifts for no reason. So I guess theres no money going out of my pocket for now. Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted February 19, 2010 Share Posted February 19, 2010 thats a shame and we had such a nice picnic planned Link to post Share on other sites
skydiveaddict Posted February 19, 2010 Share Posted February 19, 2010 Update!!!!! Oh guess what I get a call at 3 in the morning from the girl I'm talking to. She was semi wasted during the conversation that didn't even last more then 10 minutes... (I'm just going to write it out in plain English because her text formations sucked!! (Girl)- Jamesith I'm having a really good time down here. I met some F***** hot guys! - I think there bad@ss! (Me) Wait what come again? (Girl) I met some hot guys who invited me and my friend back to their hotel room, one thing lead to another and things just happened. (Me) Well did you try to stop them or at least try and leave? (Girl) Oh no, I actually wanted to have sex and I let them. (Me) Wow here I thought things between us were going smoothly.... Guess I was wrong about that. - Here I thought I could plainly trust you and you violated my trust and thats something you'll never be ever able to gain back. -Once you lose my trust its hard to gain it back. (Pause)... (Girl) You still there? (Me) Yeah I am. Have fun with the rest of your life. I don't want any part of it anymore. I guess that ends things with her. Just don't get how some people can be two-faced and say oh yeah things between us are going great, then the next minute go and do this. Kinda not cool in my book. Guess I'll be saving this idea for someone else. Just disappointment all around. And folks wonder why men start so-called "women bashing" threads here. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Jamesith Posted February 19, 2010 Author Share Posted February 19, 2010 alphamale, yeah its such a shame. All these good ideas won't get to be used for a while now. And I agree with your statement skydiveaddict. I sometimes wish I met a girl with good qualities that weren't so negative, but then again I guess that's life.. You live and you learn. And I must say I sure learned a whole lot! Link to post Share on other sites
laRubiaBonita Posted February 19, 2010 Share Posted February 19, 2010 alphamale, yeah its such a shame. All these good ideas won't get to be used for a while now. And I agree with your statement skydiveaddict. I sometimes wish I met a girl with good qualities that weren't so negative, but then again I guess that's life.. You live and you learn. And I must say I sure learned a whole lot! Yea!!!! That's the positive thing that you can take from this! Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted February 19, 2010 Share Posted February 19, 2010 Yea!!!! That's the positive thing that you can take from this! that and not having to worry about ants at the picnic Link to post Share on other sites
laRubiaBonita Posted February 19, 2010 Share Posted February 19, 2010 that and not having to worry about ants at the picnic or bears....... Link to post Share on other sites
Author Jamesith Posted February 19, 2010 Author Share Posted February 19, 2010 Hahah yall are cracking me up. lions, tigers, bears.... Oh my!!! But yeah seriously I think the closest i ever felt to someone ever in my life is probably my best friend. I've had my share of threads about her. I'm gonna go shop for some picnic stuff and just go have a picnic by myself at the beach. Maybe I'll run into old friends or a new interest. Yay!!!:cool: Link to post Share on other sites
skydiveaddict Posted February 19, 2010 Share Posted February 19, 2010 Hahah yall are cracking me up. lions, tigers, bears.... Oh my!!! But yeah seriously I think the closest i ever felt to someone ever in my life is probably my best friend. I've had my share of threads about her. I'm gonna go shop for some picnic stuff and just go have a picnic by myself at the beach. Maybe I'll run into old friends or a new interest. Yay!!!:cool: go skydiving instead Link to post Share on other sites
Author Jamesith Posted February 19, 2010 Author Share Posted February 19, 2010 Ha okay I'll think about doing that sometime soon. Link to post Share on other sites
skydiveaddict Posted February 19, 2010 Share Posted February 19, 2010 Ha okay I'll think about doing that sometime soon. And I'm really sorry you got treated that way dude. That is REALLY awful Link to post Share on other sites
Author Jamesith Posted February 19, 2010 Author Share Posted February 19, 2010 It's all good, I know I'll live regardless as to what happened. I guess theres this thought of what if... going on in the back of my head that hasn't been there for a very long time, but I probably should start a new thread to bring it up. Even though i know the responses to what I want to bring up. Ehh. Link to post Share on other sites
laRubiaBonita Posted February 20, 2010 Share Posted February 20, 2010 go skydiving instead Ha okay I'll think about doing that sometime soon. but REALLY jamesith.... GO sKyDivIng!!!! Link to post Share on other sites
Author Jamesith Posted February 20, 2010 Author Share Posted February 20, 2010 Ha! Okay I will schedule to go skydiving this coming week.:rolleyes: Link to post Share on other sites
The Paper Knight Posted February 22, 2010 Share Posted February 22, 2010 I guess that ends things with her. Just don't get how some people can be two-faced and say oh yeah things between us are going great, then the next minute go and do this. Kinda not cool in my book. Guess I'll be saving this idea for someone else. Just disappointment all around. At least you found out before going out of your way as finding out this type of stuff later down the track really sucks. This is why I stressed to save the romantic gestures for the women who really deserve it and not some mutt parading as lamb. Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted February 22, 2010 Share Posted February 22, 2010 At least you found out before going out of your way as finding out this type of stuff later down the track really sucks. This is why I stressed to save the romantic gestures for the women who really deserve it and not some mutt parading as lamb. well a picnic for the first date is a bit over the top Link to post Share on other sites
The Paper Knight Posted February 22, 2010 Share Posted February 22, 2010 well a picnic for the first date is a bit over the top ... and for the 2nd, 3rd, 4th, ... 10th Link to post Share on other sites
Author Jamesith Posted February 22, 2010 Author Share Posted February 22, 2010 Okay so here's a new question same topic here. So let's say its the picnic idea and you take good friends or a platonic friend?... Link to post Share on other sites
The Paper Knight Posted February 22, 2010 Share Posted February 22, 2010 Okay so here's a new question same topic here. So let's say its the picnic idea and you take good friends or a platonic friend?... I think any place where you are alone with a person/small group for a period of time, creates an intimate environment where you strengthen a bond between each other. So if they are close friends or family its a great way to strength the bond. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Jamesith Posted February 22, 2010 Author Share Posted February 22, 2010 Awesome! I recently moved back north and am trying to improve upon things over here, because I left them quite unfinished. And now I feel like quite the little jerk for ever being rude. I think even if I couldn't take the girl I've been talking to on a picnic I can take my family on one instead. Thanks:cool: Link to post Share on other sites
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