Ashes2008 Posted February 23, 2010 Share Posted February 23, 2010 Well to get this right I need to give you a bit of background So I got a new job and there was a really cute guy that worked with me and we were both in committed relationships. A few months went by of us flirting and being harmless when one day he asked if I wanted to get together with him later. so that is when the cheating began. So a month or so into it I started to fall for him and about six months into it I left my boyfriend because I couldn't do it any more. So now he comes over to my house and I can tell that he has feelings for me he just won't fully admit it. He just tells me how much he loves his girlfriend but the part I don't understand is if he loves her so much why would he be messing with me. I am head over heals for this guy but he just doesn't seem to want to let go of his girlfriend and I don't know what to do or say to him to convince him to stay. Link to post Share on other sites
Lindarose84 Posted February 23, 2010 Share Posted February 23, 2010 Why would he leave his girlfriend while you're allowing him to have his cake and eat it too? He gets the best of both worlds because you're letting him. Stop seeing him and see if this changes his willingness to let go of his relationship with his girlfriend. If he doesn't budge, well then you know he completely used you and isn't into you like that. Lesson learned. On a side note, why in the world would you want to be with a guy who is capable of cheating on his girlfriend with another woman for 6 months? Not that you're an angel in this situation since you've cheated too, but obviously if he's willing to do it to her, it won't be long before he decides to do it to you. Food for thought. Link to post Share on other sites
jdefc Posted February 23, 2010 Share Posted February 23, 2010 what a pity, you deserve all you get and hopefully he does leave his gf because she most probably deserves better. Women who are remotely attractive will always be confronted with such temptation in the workplace but those with any kind of self worth or respect for their partner will see the bigger picture. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Ashes2008 Posted February 23, 2010 Author Share Posted February 23, 2010 The thing is I didn't gamble leaving my boyfriend for him it was time for it to end between us. Also I know what you are saying lindarose the only thing is I don't know if I have the strength to do that when he calls I go running because he only has limited amount of time with out his g/f. Plus I think about that all the time if we were to end up together would I trust him because it has actually been almost a year I have been confronted with this kind of stuff before at work but always blew it off and said no but for some reason with him I said yes Link to post Share on other sites
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