Gabs808 Posted January 7, 2004 Share Posted January 7, 2004 I've been with my fiance a year now. I found out three months into the relationship that he was bisexual and had been with other guys. He is no longer in contact with any of them but his ex boyfriend still calls saying he loves him. It's seriously bothering me, but I don't want him to think that I don't trust him. He never calls him back and always tells me if he calls. I've been finding a lot of porn, some gay, and some IM's from gay guys on his comp. It just makes me worry on how things will be in the future. I love him with all my heart and I know he loves me. He cries whenever he thinks I doubt him, but I just feel threatened that he will change his mind and that will be the end of that. Please help me to think of a way to discuss this with him. Link to post Share on other sites
Fancy Posted January 7, 2004 Share Posted January 7, 2004 Based on what you said, I think you have MUCH to be concerned about. Are you two practicing safe sex? Has he been tested for AIDS and other STDs? Have you? This is my opinion only, but there's no way in the world I could deal with a situation like that. If he's been looking at gay porn, I would say he's still very much bisexual. Who's to say he won't want men again? You need to have a real heart to heart with this guy and he needs to be honest with himself. And you need to protect your health above all. I'm sorry I don't have any other advice for you, but I've never been in a situation like yours. Link to post Share on other sites
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