I Don't Know what to do

[Sweetlady]

I just messed up my relationship with my boyfriend. We had a party last week and we both went. I was suppose to be with him and I actually went to be with him. I took it as if he wasnt paying me any attention. I ended up drinking and I know I get crazy when I drink. I ended up with another boy. I didnt sleep with him. I just chilled with him at the party and that was all. I can understand him getting mad because that was wrong what I did. I felt hurt on the inside. I didnt mean to do it like that, I was just trying to have fun.

[Tony T]

Some people mingle individually at parties, others as a couple. You obviously didn't have anykind of understand with your guy. Yes, what you did was somewhat wrong but if your guy wasn't paying any attention to you the whole time you were with the other guy...obviously the other guy was enjoying your company more than your boyfriend. You had a right to be hurt if you were being totally ignored. My recommendation is to break up with your guy and start seeing the one who was enjoying your company more at the party....or at least get to know him better.

[Sweetlady]

The boy that I was with happens to be a boy that I used to go with awhile ago. The reason why I broke up with him was because he was cheating on me. I know for a fact that I am not going back to him. The boy that I am with now is very sweet but its like he dont know what to say to me at times. I just was with my ex just to have fun because he is a cool friend not a boyfriend type. We both have someone so we werent trying to mess around.

[InLoKo]

Originally posted by Sweetlady

I just was with my ex just to have fun because he is a cool friend not a boyfriend type.

 

No, the truth is probably what you wrote in your first post "I took it as if he wasnt paying me any attention." Isn't that why you chatted to your ex, to make him jealous and/or pay you attention? Dangerous game to play.