sparkleginger Posted February 28, 2010 Share Posted February 28, 2010 Well ive been friends with this guy for about 6 years, since I was 13. and we became friends, then best friends and we have recently become something way more. Its been going smoothly so far, nothing has been going wrong..until this month. ' First he started this thing where he didnt want to talk and when I finally got it out of him he said "he didnt think it would work out, and he was ended it before we got hurt more" well I reassured him and we talked it out and he said sorry...and he gets mad at me and says things he doesnt mean, then comes back with a tattoo with my favriote flower, and im so freaking happy. then a few days later he says I lied to him, and I say sorry and he said sorry wont fix it and just give him some time..and I didnt and that might be the problem....but the real problem starts here and it's still ongoing I made a playful threat, I rolled my eyes at him..he laughed and I said "youll feel it soon enough" and he said oh ok, and I said you'll feel it soon enough...it sounds harmless but he said I ruined all his feelings for me with that whole little thing...and protest it was a threat and starting talking about...me hurting his family...and ive never been violent towards him or anything...and its been 2 days and hes not talking to me.. so I let go of my pride and said I was sorry, because I said some things that were not very nice...and he's still ignoring me...im so hurt and confused what should I do next...we were planning to meet in march he was comming to me...then he said I should come to him after the first time...and now I dont even know Link to post Share on other sites
Rollercoasterr Posted February 28, 2010 Share Posted February 28, 2010 I think that you both sound a little childish. Why are you lying to him and refusing to give him time that he asked for? He may be acting immature, but you aren't acting any better. If you're going to attempt this, you BOTH need to grow up and act like adults instead of 16 year old high school kids. These fights you two have been having are so silly and so petty. Link to post Share on other sites
Author sparkleginger Posted February 28, 2010 Author Share Posted February 28, 2010 I never lied, cheated or anything...and I guess my biggest problem was smothering...I guess it's over because he told me its never going to happen...again. I just cant accept it because its so sudden and there were no problems except for him doubting me Link to post Share on other sites
Rollercoasterr Posted February 28, 2010 Share Posted February 28, 2010 If you never lied then why apologize for something you didn't do??? If you lied, THEN you apologize, not when you don't lie. Link to post Share on other sites
Author sparkleginger Posted February 28, 2010 Author Share Posted February 28, 2010 I don't know, I just wanted him to feel better. I think its over anyway, he just doesnt want to be with me anymore, and there's nothing else I can say or do. He said, its never going to happen and hes ending it before we get hurt further by meeting or something... Link to post Share on other sites
Els Posted February 28, 2010 Share Posted February 28, 2010 I'm sorry, but I think he just chickened out of meeting you and is looking for excuses. Link to post Share on other sites
Author sparkleginger Posted February 28, 2010 Author Share Posted February 28, 2010 I think so also, -sigh- its been so long. I hope he snaps out of it, im going to give him his space Link to post Share on other sites
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