Angel Pie Posted February 28, 2010 Posted February 28, 2010 (edited) Is there a difference between looking at a porn movie vs looking at someone masterbate on webcam. Not just live webcam but downloading a webcam video? I understand that men are visual and porn is a stimulant to get off. I as well look at porn...but is looking at a person who isnt a porn star, just a regular person that could be your neighbor on webcam a little different? Is it Cheating? Edited February 28, 2010 by Angel Pie added question
abouttoloseit Posted February 28, 2010 Posted February 28, 2010 It's weird...I think. When I do watch pron, I seem to like watching just the amateur stuff. Its far more "real" and not some blonde slut shouting "oh f*ck my pussy!". It doesn't have to be that hardore either, it just seem more authentic if that makes sense. So I guess looking at someone masturbate, its more personal...if you are comparing like for like. But it's still imagery. Pixels on a screen. I don't think it's cheating...well....it's not. It's still imagery. I think it crosses the line when you know the person in the video. my $0.2
Author Angel Pie Posted February 28, 2010 Author Posted February 28, 2010 It's weird...I think. When I do watch pron, I seem to like watching just the amateur stuff. Its far more "real" and not some blonde slut shouting "oh f*ck my pussy!". It doesn't have to be that hardore either, it just seem more authentic if that makes sense. So I guess looking at someone masturbate, its more personal...if you are comparing like for like. But it's still imagery. Pixels on a screen. I don't think it's cheating...well....it's not. It's still imagery. I think it crosses the line when you know the person in the video. my $0.2 No, I totally understand what you mean by more authentic. Some people cant get past the cheesyness of a porn movie (bad acting, etc) Some people are not attracted to porn stars with fake boobs. I understand that no matter what it is, you are right its just a bunch of pixels, imagery to release. I just didnt know how I felt about the idea of webcam. When you break it down the way you did it doesnt seem as such a big deal. Porn stars are people too, just with better cameras. I dunno, it just seems more personal.
samsungxoxo Posted February 28, 2010 Posted February 28, 2010 Strangely I never considered that cheating. I used to tell my ex boyfriend that it wasn't cheating to me if I were to ever caught him doing that on cam, though he wasn't interest in it. Since he didn't like that, I respected the relationship and agreed with him. I can't explained dramatic people (mainly other women) that would even be in tears by that if they caught their men doing that. I must be weird because instead of crying, it would turn me on and it would then be my turn but with another man on the cam.
orangesean Posted March 1, 2010 Posted March 1, 2010 No, I totally understand what you mean by more authentic. Some people cant get past the cheesyness of a porn movie (bad acting, etc) Some people are not attracted to porn stars with fake boobs. I understand that no matter what it is, you are right its just a bunch of pixels, imagery to release. I just didnt know how I felt about the idea of webcam. When you break it down the way you did it doesnt seem as such a big deal. Porn stars are people too, just with better cameras. I dunno, it just seems more personal. If we are going on the notion that porn is okay for a guy to look at (depending on what some people think), then I think you have the right idea here. I personally prefer these type of videos just because porn with production values seems so grotesque, intense, and out of control nowadays. I find it more comforting to just get off to an average or above average body. In my head, I say it helps a guy who likes porn not get his expectations out of control and to have a much more realistic idea of the female body. I actually sort of worry about the men who a lot of the professional porn is targeted at now, having seen clips of some of it. Even things like a fisheye lense put on the camera to make things seem rounder or bigger is just bizarre to me. But if it's a webcam video of someone the guy knows, then I think the girlfriend should be concerned as well.
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