vayne417 Posted March 2, 2010 Share Posted March 2, 2010 This is a girl or guy question. Here it goes I have been talking to a "friend" for almost 2 years, I started to have feelings for him so I like a dork told him. Well for the past three months or so we have spent the night at his house we cuddle we get close and hug but NO KISSING I have been out of the whole dating thing for almost 6 years or so.. I'm new a this should i kiss him? do i let him kiss me? this whole girl guy thing is so confusing.... help me.... someone... Link to post Share on other sites
youaretheone Posted March 2, 2010 Share Posted March 2, 2010 How did he respond to you when you told him you liked him. It seems from his actions that he is comfortable with that so why not initiate the first kiss if things are mutual? Link to post Share on other sites
saltnpepper Posted March 6, 2010 Share Posted March 6, 2010 You could always just ask. Might be a tiny bit uncomfortable, but then you'd know. Link to post Share on other sites
Tranquillity Posted March 7, 2010 Share Posted March 7, 2010 I think its a double edged sword. If you make the first move you could come off easy. If you don't he may lose interest. Personally I like girls that make the first move however I haven't had real good luck with them. Personally I am pretty blunt and to the point. If I like a girl I'll kiss her and let the chips fall. I don't get emotionally attached in an intimate manner until they are on the same plane. In your case it sounds like your already emotionally involved and that's a though spot. Personally I would go for it instead of becoming even more attached and make sure your not wasting your time. Link to post Share on other sites
Author vayne417 Posted March 7, 2010 Author Share Posted March 7, 2010 He really didn't express much. He actually recently within the. Past few weeks or so started to want to hang out with me more often he has agreed and complied with meeting and hanging out with my friends he is extremely shy but has opened up tremendously to me and mine... I don't want to mess up. Great friendship with my feelings... Link to post Share on other sites
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