Spengles Posted January 8, 2004 Share Posted January 8, 2004 How can a guy learn to be more aggressive? To be able to tell a girl that she's hot and to flirt with her. It's a problem I'm having with a friend of mine who doesn't believe that I like her. I'm just a really shy person. Of course I'm attracted to her physically but I can't show it or I'm too scared to. I feel awkward saying things like that and I know a lot of my problems stem from that. Help? Link to post Share on other sites
Cornbread Posted January 8, 2004 Share Posted January 8, 2004 whats up, man ? I was in da same spot as u, once. Just talk to her. Try to be more confident. The key is to talk to lots of girls that you are not exactly attracted to. Get information and learn by talking to them. You go there, talk to her. Just get a few words out. Usually, try to get her to talk about whats going on with her, especially something wrong. She will go on and on and you are there, listening and learning about her. thats how you do it. oh, and keep track of time. you will tell her you enjoyed talking to her and would like to do it again. If she gives you a phone number, thats cool and she is interested, or just curious. that way you can talk to her, be friendly and eventually ask her to do something together, start small. If she doesn't give you the number, you tell her you just wanted to talk, and if she doesnt she dont have to. And you move on to the next. Eventually, you meet a good girl you click with and bingo, you're there, man ! Do what I told you. If you aren't confident, fake it. Use something as a conversation starter. could be anything. doesnt have to about her. Good luck, man. Link to post Share on other sites
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