carra Posted January 8, 2004 Share Posted January 8, 2004 just to brief everyone- my husband of 1 yr seperated from me about two months ago, because of many little things, and then one day i lost my temper, and fueled by alcohol, i yelled, pushed him around, and kicked his suv's bumper(no damage though). he said i crossed the line and left me. now, two months later, he has come back to me. he wants to take it slow and date for awhile before we start living together again. I just want things to be back to normal, but better then before ofcourse. my question is, for those of you who have experienced this, how is the best way to handle this? better to take it slow and just date, or should we immediately move in together? also, how to recover from the hurt and trust issues to make this time around better and forever. also, how can a young wife make her young husband feel romanced? thanx to any responses. Link to post Share on other sites
maxmuscle Posted January 8, 2004 Share Posted January 8, 2004 carra, It's obvious your husband still loves you and misses you. Maybe your husband had time alone to reflect on the relationship and figured it was not worth it to through it all away. Emotions runs high during arguments. People do and say thing they don't actually mean. It was a good thing the both of you had time and space to reflect on the relationship. I would take things slow and easy. Don't rush or push. Your husband came back for the very reasons of loving and missing you. I think he realize the mistakes made and want to talk about them for better of the relationship. Link to post Share on other sites
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