Darkangelism Posted January 9, 2004 Share Posted January 9, 2004 Ok, I liked this girl, we went on a date after she asked me, she agreed to a 2nd date then before that date happened, she told me she didnt want a boyfriend. So I was ok with that, confused and hurt cause she asked me out. We agree to just be friend. Then two weeks later she tells me she has a boyfriend now. I say what the hell were u just leading me on? then she flips out at me, saying why would i ever expect her to like me. Now here is my question, should I try to make some semblence of peace? She is my neighbor and i do have to see her. Link to post Share on other sites
sarah12 Posted January 9, 2004 Share Posted January 9, 2004 Yes you should try and make some 'semblance of peace'. Just tell her there are no hard feelings, that the date was nice and hopefully you can still be friends. Be confident around her so that she knows you are happy and doing fine without her. That's all you can really do. Dates are meant for learning more about the other person - there is no committment tied to it. People date all the time and they don't always work out. That's the point of dating! Link to post Share on other sites
mintjulep Posted January 9, 2004 Share Posted January 9, 2004 Let me just say...what a freak-show! You should probably just keep the semblance of peace, because, really, it's no skin off your nose. She probably just told you that she wasn't interested in having a boyfriend because she was too chicken to tell you the truth (either that she was interested in someone else, or that she didn't like you in "that way"), and got pissed when you called her on her lie. Maybe she was trying to spare your feelings, but her freak out later on indicates that she was thinking more of her own embarrassment than yours. You're better off, but that's no reason not to be friendly with her. Link to post Share on other sites
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